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LouShane :
try falling in love with someone you don't want to change
2025-07-15 21:38:49
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user5904439619074 :
Pro tip: You can’t change people. They can only change themselves.
2025-07-16 08:15:54
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Wolf5jvs :
Begging some to change is a form of manipulation too…
2025-07-16 21:47:55
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Pastor Don :
Ummm… if you are with someone and expect them to change, I question if you were with them for the right reason anyway. Secondly, what are you willing to change for him? The problem with modern relationships is that there is no balance. Two people enter expecting the other to do all the heavy lifting. This always ends in disaster. Finally, never poke fun of men who are capable of showing you emotion. We are rare and you can snuff out that trait easily leaving yet another man that you will complain is emotionally unavailable.
2025-07-16 15:43:54
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Bryan Love :
Why would you date a man who “needs to change?”
2025-07-16 06:14:42
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G Martin :
If you wanted to change him , why did you go out with him. He’s better off.
2025-07-16 04:01:58
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black_n_gold_tiga :
Nobody should change for someone. Change happens when you take accountability and want to change for yourself
2025-07-16 16:18:12
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Joseph Nichols :
Maybe he actually cried because he didn’t want to lose you in his life. If change was easy addiction wouldn’t even exist. Did you ever think maybe he wanted to change for you he just couldn’t figure out how to? However if you want to leave then that’s your decision but not every man is evil or have bad intentions.
2025-07-16 12:46:24
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Kody23 :
He shouldn’t have to change
2025-07-16 01:52:01
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jeffro :
if you won't except him as is you don't deserve him
2025-07-16 11:49:58
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lineman238 :
Or it could be unconditional love. Something he will never see
2025-07-16 01:42:13
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Chucky :
Maybe… but what seems to make you so perfect that you didn’t need to change anything? Only he needed to. Have you ever listened to him, and asked what he didn’t like about you? I hear this a lot from women. But they never think they need to change anything. It’s actually messed up. Because he stayed with you, with all your imperfections, but you couldn’t seem to do the same.
2025-07-16 14:42:14
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Peaceful Reflection :
Why should he change for you? Why didn't you change for him?
2025-07-19 19:57:20
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fuck it :
change yourself were not dolls we are who we are
2025-07-16 02:45:57
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adamprice872 :
Um I believe the person you got with is the same person you broke up with. You changed and wanted him to change with you
2025-07-17 13:39:33
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Joe mama :
& if he does the same after cheating!!
2025-07-15 16:00:11
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Steven Cherry247 :
Or your wants and needs shifted and you shattered his world because all he wanted was you it is a stage of grief it will pass
2025-07-16 02:10:40
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⚔️🍀🖤Johnny🖤🍀⚔️ :
Why are we asking people to change their ways when we shouldn’t go after the ones we don’t want in the first place 🤔
2025-07-16 13:54:12
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HybridxHeathen :
yessss!!!!! this exactly!! I sat down and ended our 10 year relationship and he bawled and bawled and the next day all if a sudden was finenwith it I knew then I should have walked away a long time ago
2025-07-16 12:10:24
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ms.garciia23 :
but the kicker is when he “changed” and texts you 2 months later that he finally got his life together🥰
2025-07-16 15:14:49
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user5675110416376 :
The truth is, If he would have changed you would still break up with him eventually. He will cry today but be much better off without you tomorrow.
2025-07-19 10:24:23
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Shane774 :
You can't change him..If he does, he won't be happy.
2025-07-18 22:24:08
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BarbieTheMermaid :
Happened to me 🤦🏻♀️
2025-08-31 21:53:46
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