@myjourney_official: Sometimes the hardest part isn't Ieaving. It's believing you deserve more. But you do. Always "I stayed because I didn't know how to leave." Not because I was happy. Not because I was strong. But because I was afraid. Afraid of the unknown, afraid, of starting over, and afraid of the silence that would follow after I walked away.😥💔 There were so many nights I cried in silence, wishing you'd change.😥🥹 Hoping the love I gave would eventually be returned.But it never came.😥🥹 And still, I stayed. I made excuses for you. I told myself, "Maybe tomorrow he'll be better." I convinced myself that all relationships have bad days-but ours had more bad days than good, more pain than peace, more silence than connection🥹😥 People would look at us and say, "You're lucky to rave someone." They didn't know the version of you I saw behind closed doors. -The coldness. -The dismissiveness. -The lack of care. You didn't see me breaking. You didn't see how much of myself I lost just trying to make you happy. I stayed because I thought love meant sacrifice. I stayed because I didn't want to be the one who gave up. I stayed because I believed that leaving would make me the bad one. But slowly, I realized: staying was killing my spirit. 🥹😥💔 Staying was teaching me to settle. Staying was hurting more than leaving ever could. Leaving isn't easy when your heart is involved, when your dreams are tied to someone, when you've invested years of effort and love. But staying in a place where you are not valued vill slowly destroy you. And that's what I learned the hard way. One day, Ijust got tired.😥🥹💔 Tired of the tears.🥹😥💔 Tired of begging for love.🥹😥💔 Tired of pretending everything was fine.😥🥹💔 And in that moment of exhaustion, I finally found the strength I thought I never had. I left--not because I stopped loving you, but because I started loving myself.🥹😥💔 📍 And now, I'm healing. Day by day. Breathe by breath. 📍Learning that walking away doesn't make me weak-it made me brave. 📍Because choosing myself, after being lost for so long, was the most powerful thing l've ever done. ___ 📌 Moral Lesson: 1. Staying in a relationship that breaks you is not loyalty--it's self-abandonment. You don't have to stay where love no longer grows. 2. Love should never cost your peace, your self-worth, or your happiness. Real love nurtures--it doesn't drain. 3. Leaving isn't a weakness-it's courage. It takes strength to walk away from what's hurting you, especially when your heart still cares. 4. You cannot heal in the same place that keeps breaking you. Sometimes, the only way to find peace is to let go. 5.The longer you stay in the wrong place, the harder it becomes to find the right one. Don't lose yourself trying to save something that's already gone. 6. Self-love S the beginning Of real healing. When you choose yourself, you begin to attract what truly honors and values you. 7. You are not responsible for someone else's inability to love you properly. But you are responsible for choosing whether to accept it or walk away. Sometimes the hardest part isn't leaving. lt'S believing you deserve more. But you do. Always. #postmemories
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Wednesday 16 July 2025 09:18:28 GMT
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Queen Sassy 👑♡🇵🇭 :
20years bago ko napalaya Ang sarili ko sa sitwastong hinding Hindi Namin deserve ng mga anak ko at Kahit kelan di ko pagsisisihan Ang ginawa Kong pagpili sa sarili ko.💯🥺
2025-07-21 08:39:45
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𝗠𝘀.𝗗𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗺_𝗛𝗶𝗴𝗵 125🎀 :
Sometimes we stay, not because it’s still worth it, but because we don’t know how to leave.
I know how it feels to keep holding on, kahit wasak na, dahil umaasa pa rin tayo na magbabago ang lahat.
But here’s what I’ve learned: staying when you’re not valued is a slow way of losing yourself.
The bravest thing you can do is choose peace—even if it means walking away.
Leaving isn’t weakness. It’s loving yourself enough to say,
‘This isn’t where my heart is safe anymore.’
And that’s okay. [ HUGS AND PRAYER FOR YOU sis, i feel you ]
2025-07-21 01:36:14
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Abegail :
Why is this hitting so hard
2025-08-16 21:31:21
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Kristiane Cristobal :
I stayed bcoz I thought I will be chosen to be with..but then in the end I lost him suddenly I lost my self..I don't know how to let go and be apart from him..I do..I really do love him..but then how.??.if love can give back to ones I owned before..😭😭
2025-07-20 09:38:57
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Christynhelie Nhel :
It deeply hits me 😭😭😭 I am still in denial stage.... Coz I really don't know how to end it... The only thing I know is that he loves me too much that I can't be the reason that he will shatter.😢
2025-07-20 11:16:33
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Majestic Margaux ❤️ :
on point. a woman when she finally reaches that point to leave she does. it takes a bit longer because we emotionally invested.. then the realisation happens. it hurts it will take work.. it will take time to heal.. sometimes not leaving has more to do with us than the person we have trauma that was not faced. don't devalue yourself. don't dim your own light and be strong the right person will find you. I will always believe in love there must be just be 1 person out there in this big world that could possibly be my forever person..❤️🥰💯 I'm sure we wish on the same Star each night.
2025-07-19 10:46:16
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🩵ANDRE🩵 :
believe the process of silent quitting
2025-07-20 02:35:06
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💔💔norskie💔😭💦💦 :
permission to copy po
2025-07-16 14:46:39
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Gemini 47🌹 :
Thank u for this, you've given me so much hope in knowing that I can leave, I don't have to live like this
2025-08-02 06:32:51
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Elize Reyes :
can i copy? plsss..😳
2025-07-20 10:55:34
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Tata Jov :
permission to copy please
2025-07-21 09:25:13
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Mrs.Ren :
can I copy this 😭😭 🫂?
2025-07-20 12:22:02
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🦋🍂𝑀𝑜𝑜𝑑𝑦 𝐺𝑖𝑟𝑙🍂🦋 :
Pwede po pa copy salamat 🥺🥺🥺🥺
2025-07-20 20:11:34
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it took a lot of courage, sleepless nights, bravery for me to finally leave and let go.. it hurts so much but i have to.. so i can have my peace of mind 😢🥺🥺😥
2025-07-20 11:25:40
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Miel :
Can I copy po🥺🥺🥺this is me and I’m choosing myself…
2025-07-20 11:26:55
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N🦋I🦋E🦋L🦋I🦋E :
This has took plenty of my best years can only take my lessons along. Was never place on earth 2be unhappy 🤞
2025-08-16 09:15:06
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Luna's shop :
pwede din po b pa copy paste...thats its me..😭
2025-07-20 13:16:03
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@misnoura15 :
ohhh I read all.of this message and I totally feel it every words that it's base on my true life happen but until.now I can't leave him cause I love him much and always thinking of him.i know myself I lose myself but I hold it he will back from the beginning where happy again.that I always pray for.
2025-07-17 19:14:45
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Christine De Jager :
same same here . I don't know how to leave . 😔😕😞😢😪😔
2025-07-20 12:56:55
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卡森 :
can copy?🙏
2025-07-18 16:25:53
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Cheema :
right now I'm on this situation...😭😭😭😭
2025-07-22 11:13:03
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crisarlence020611 Shop :
exactly that's my life and love story but you know sometimes God breaks our hearts to save our souls 🙏 He got my loved ones because He know how much I suffer from Him but still I can't leave bcoz I believe that He can change, He became mature someday but Im so drained and pray na Lord bahala ka na KC di ko na kaya, He passed away 5 years ago. mahirap, malungkot pero less stress
2025-07-19 14:09:12
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RACEL🇵🇭🇮🇸🇪🇸 :
it just that we're afraid to be alone , and don't how and where to start without them .
2025-07-20 09:21:23
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Shan :
the pain of letting go... 😢
2025-07-30 14:44:56
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Once.upon.a.time :
Everyday is a brand new day. Never too late to start over. Learning to ❤️ourself is the first step. Everything else will fall into place after that. Trust me, I know….
2025-07-20 04:10:13
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