@stepha_ni_ni: I’m bored. Tell me the most unhinged thing someone said to you after your person died. I’m not talking “he’s in a better place” I mean the stuff that made you blink twice… 👀 #unhinged #widow #loss #grief #imbored
my ex told me I was neglecting our 6 week old when I left them both at home to go see my dying father in hospital 🤦♀️
2025-07-16 15:02:54
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lrckv :
"everything happens for a reason" said to my 18 year old daughter the day her dad died. smfh.
2025-07-16 15:24:47
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Hanne :
Friend of the family was told literally the day her husband had died 'You're still young enough, you'll meet someone else.'
2025-07-18 22:57:40
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amandaholmes818 :
My old boss said the company was too busy for me to attend my mums funeral
2025-07-16 20:24:03
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momentswithmoll :
“She had good innings” sorry wtf
2025-07-16 18:13:42
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photocopierink :
My friend was a widow at 25. The next day her brother said ‘good job you’re still young you can still find someone and have kids’
2025-07-20 19:58:22
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Addie :
"you'll meet someone new, someone better" from a colleague.
"let's get together and have afternoon tea to say goodbye to each other, we were never that close anyway" from his mother... a week after he died... HIS. MOTHER.
2025-07-18 22:04:11
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Leese :
I had one missed call on my phone from my brother at 2am, I was driving to bring my mam to the hospital to see dad when I rang him back, told him what I was doing he said oh dads dead, i tried calling 😭😭😭 three years gone next month and it’s as painful a loss now probably more so than ever
2025-07-17 18:22:28
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Michelle Shavnore :
My first husband was killed on the job. Somebody told me at least he died that way instead of having a heart attack while he was driving home from work or something. He could’ve killed a lot of other people too. Yeah I still don’t think I’ve gotten over that one.
2025-07-17 01:52:03
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Nate Johnson :
When I lost my sister and grandmother 2 weeks apart both unexpectedly. Someone said to me. Watch out. Death comes in threes. 😳
2025-07-16 12:54:20
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KAsh :
3 weeks after my mother died suddently the say after he 56th birthday my already ex said " it's been 3 weeks u should be getting over it now " bare in mind my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer the week after her funeral 😫
2025-07-16 23:21:37
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Beverley Bates429 :
after my son died when I was pregnant with my daughter It was said to me " least you have her to replace him!' like no mate NO ONE WILL EVER REPLAVE HIM!!!
2025-07-17 07:05:59
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mrsh 🏴 🦄 :
A neighbour, six weeks in, So how are you enjoying your new found freedom?
2025-07-16 23:44:09
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Tony Fox :
ex bf said " finally, thank the universe, and no I'm not going to her (my mum's) funeral".
2025-07-17 08:43:04
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coolcat575 :
My mum died 3 weeks ago from cancer. I was her caretaker and i am still devastated. At the funeral someone told me my mum didn't make the right medical choices (she did everything the drs said). Someone else told me that i am not the first nor the last to lose my mum...
2025-07-17 05:07:59
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PeridotFoxDesign🇨🇦🏳️🌈 :
After my daughter was killed in a horrible accident, her mother in law said to me, "It's good she died in front of the children, so they know what happened." They had sustained broken bones and injuries too, and watched their mother die horribly.
2025-07-17 15:18:03
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Xena 💕🌹 :
A week after my BIL said to me “ you still sad about your dad” 😂😭😂
2025-07-17 12:28:01
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nataliebrown1583 :
My husband passed away at his funeral I was told to move on now
2025-07-16 22:59:02
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Ambersponytail :
my ex completely drunk screamed at me "you are just like your dead crazy mother" about 48 hours after she was unalived by her husband
2025-07-16 13:13:19
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Mars :
“I forgot they died this week” 💀 i had lost one of the most important people in my life
2025-07-16 16:13:31
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💙🦋OldBroad(Apryl)🦋💙 :
At my husband’s celebration of life a neighbor asked about selling him my husband’s classic car. A co-worker told me to smile 3 months after my husbands passing. A delivery driver hit on me a month after my husband passed.
2025-07-16 23:04:25
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Staci 🧿 :
6 hours after I woke up to find my husband ☠️my own mother told me ‘you’re single now, go find you a rich Dr at that hospital you work for’ 3 weeks later, while visiting me, my ‘best friend’ texted said mother and told her I was too sad and all I thought about was him. The audacity is real yall
2025-07-16 12:04:40
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Apple User455296 :
it could have been worse - like how?
2025-07-16 19:53:15
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EternallyBefuddled☺️ :
A former boss said I should be over my son’s death by now. I’d just come back off of maternity/bereavement leave.
2025-07-16 14:36:29
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Rae-Marie :
When my five week old son passed, a few years later one of the school mums told me I should erase all pictures and videos and evidence of his existence move, start fresh and move on… like excuse me ?
2025-07-16 14:45:16
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