@indigoayira: True love HONORS FREEDOM, it doesn’t try to CONTAIN it. Why is it that so many relationships rob us of the ability to be true friends, friends who genuinely care about each other’s growth, who hold space for each other’s humanity, who can be honest with one another about EVERYTHING even if it may trigger our insecurity, friends who allow each other to feel, to fall apart, to be triggered, and still be loved? It’s because we enter relationships fragmented… carrying wounds, unmet needs, and a fear of abandonment that makes us possessive and we mask it as “love”. When we move from this place, the relationship becomes a prison rather than a space of safety, expansion, and co-creation. Instead of two whole people coming together in conscious connection, we form bonds built on co-dependency and unresolved trauma. Dehumanization begins the moment we stop seeing our partner as a sovereign being, as a HUMAN and FRIEND and start seeing them as someone who belongs to us. We place them in a box labeled “my man,” “my woman,” “my boyfriend,” “my girlfriend” … claiming them through titles rooted more in fear than in freedom. And the moment they step outside the boundaries we’ve drawn, we don’t pause to understand. We react. We feel betrayed, abandoned, disrespected. But what we’re really feeling is the fear of losing control. What we are really feeling is abandoned. No matter the label or agreement, you cannot possess a person … you can only experience them, moment by moment, choice by choice. Real love doesn’t seek to cage or control; it honors freedom, fluidity, and truth. Traditional relationships often dishonor our true nature, revealing the fragmentation we’ve yet to heal within ourselves.

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Wednesday 16 July 2025 16:18:55 GMT