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Bearded Cat Dad :
I’m loud because I’m excited, not because I’m angry
2025-07-17 17:45:24
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Sarahdonically :
"Girl calm down" or "Why are you yelling" is so common! 💙
2025-07-17 18:53:37
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gabby :
WHY does passion = anger to these people 😭😭😭
2025-07-22 12:42:45
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Sofia ✨️ :
or they think you're angry when your face is just relaxed 💔
2025-07-17 17:25:24
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bridgett :
THIS. people think my passion is anger. and I'm like... uh.... do you not feel this deeply about the things you care about ?
2025-07-18 15:44:54
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kristen :
Being told as a child to tone it down every single time I got “too” excited/hyper just made me feel like expressing fully is not ok… THONGS ARE WORTH BEING PASSIONATE ABOUT
2025-07-21 21:48:54
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Tobart :
Yup, they say calm down, breathe, they really do think we are angry. Bc what we do when we do this, is how they act when something is bothering them, or they are angry about it.
2025-07-18 21:37:03
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Jenni Maharidge :
They genuinely think I'm trying to argue my point of view. 😭😭😭
2025-07-19 15:19:08
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Justin :
But WE are the ones who don’t “get communication.”😔
2025-07-24 12:40:57
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i..like.cartoons :
lol I had to stop mid sentence yesterday just to say “This is not anger by the way” and continued to talk about what I was talking about 😅
2025-07-21 17:30:52
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MainMar :
I feel SO SEEN RN I’m not angry I’m passionate 😭
2025-07-17 18:31:57
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beans :
This is a random question but in Spain do you think it is completely necessary to know Spanish?
2025-08-05 18:02:25
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𝔄𝔪𝔢𝔯𝔦𝔮𝔲𝔦𝔱𝔞 𓆩❤︎𓆪 :
I always say “I’M SORRY I’M PASSIONATE ABOUT A TOPIC AND I’M EXCITED AND YOURE NOT” hahaha
2025-07-24 15:00:19
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tylajanae.2 :
Nothing makes me go mute more than someone saying “calm down or why are you yelling” 🙃
2025-07-22 19:02:02
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Ghost Midir :
straight up makes me so sad when people think I'm experiencing something negative when I'm happy as hell D: like c'mon this is my favourite thing to do
2025-07-25 15:15:20
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Fritz :
Preach 😭
2025-08-02 09:19:13
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Nadia Coleman :
My mother telling me to tone it down, comes to mind 😳
2025-07-17 17:33:29
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Chelsea :
it's probably because we can't control our volume when we're emotional in any way, including excitement. It ruins my mood when I'm talking excitedly and someone interrupts me to tell me I'm too loud.
2025-07-19 22:17:58
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k :
and when they get something wrong about my special interest that triggers me dump all about it and correct them they think im being condescending
2025-07-26 00:49:42
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David :
A lot of people are not very knowledgeable about science and history. So I'm trying to gage what they know so I can hopefully skip explaining basics.
2025-09-07 17:26:20
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Emblem :
Constantly get told to calm down and asked why I’m talking so loud, even with explaining it a million times.
2025-07-20 07:35:19
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Holistic Chef Niki :
I’ve been working on monitoring it better with myself. While observing others, I can see when the person they’re talking to doesn’t care to receive a detailed explanation, but they’re not picking up on those social cues and keep going on a tangent. We can come off as robotic or heated when we’re speaking about something passionately, but others aren’t obligated to care as much as we do. I’ve been working on pacing myself when I speak to others in person to see how they react to indicate whether or not I can keep going or if they want to change the subject or end the conversation altogether. I’m autistic and have ADHD, but when I’m in a conversation with another autistic person, in spite of how hard I try to be patient and understanding, the way they speak can sometimes come off as loud, angry or emotionally unstable. I know I’m guilty of coming off that way in the past as well, but the more I’ve worked on regulating my nervous system, the calmer I’ve become and socializing isn’t as scary or embarrassing.
2025-07-22 21:30:23
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Brendan FN James :
I know... I always have to add a disclaimer lol
2025-09-09 09:50:35
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mars :
they say they’re getting overstimulated by me talking meanwhile they’re not even autistic
2025-09-12 18:21:13
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L :
Then realized unless they are family that person is no longer a friend just acquaintance.
2025-07-17 18:02:02
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