This is hard because the husband was always upfront and honest he wanted kids from the very beginning. It’s not his fault she changed her mind. It’s okay that she did, but him wanting to separate doesn’t make him a bad guy here. He thought he married someone on the same page as him.
2025-07-18 00:57:16
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THE BEE🐝 :
never let a man manipulate you into having kids. ultimately, it's not HIS sacrifice.
2025-07-18 00:35:51
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Wisecracking Blonde :
I always think it's strange when people are OK losing their spouse so they can go find one who wants kids. It makes it feel like the entire relationship was just to find a breeder, not because you actually love the person.
2025-07-19 14:23:41
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Bennymas21 :
I think the sad part is that he gave her an option to leave but she chose to stay. It's fine that she changed her mind but in situations like these you can't have your cake and eat it to. Kids aren't A deal breaker they're THE deal breaker.
2025-07-18 01:18:40
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Gaby J :
For those saying he blackmailed her, think again. She changed her mind WHICH IS 1000% VALID. He’s also a person and has the right to agree or disagree with the change in their marriage’s direction. She could have said no. No one is wrong here.
2025-07-18 02:04:55
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Asweet :
She had the baby to keep the man. Big mistake
2025-07-20 10:41:50
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rachreynolds97 :
Unfortunately, I don’t feel bad for her. He gave her an out, respectfully. She chose to stay out of fear of being alone. Unfortunate all around but he gave her a clear cut out of the marriage. She had a child out of guilt.
2025-07-18 13:18:53
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Mala<3 :
why are we blaming the man when he was straight up about it? girls cmon now
2025-07-19 04:35:59
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VentaShopa :
She centered the man.
2025-07-18 01:53:24
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user4436633328410 :
She wasn’t manipulated. He told her that he wanted a divorce which he’s entitled to. She pressured herself into having children.
2025-07-18 16:15:18
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Rm :
She’s allowed to change her mind, he’s allowed to leave. They both communicated honestly. Nobody was a jerk here, guys. Sometimes life is just crummy!
2025-07-20 22:05:28
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miffy :
the accusations were unnecessary but the offer of divorce and separation was honest and respectable. she should have gone through the pain of divorce
2025-07-18 09:39:58
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🌛✨sunchild✨🌜 :
“I couldn’t have done it without him”. You wouldn’t have done it without him…🫠
2025-07-18 19:00:03
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$yD :
Never stop making these! You are saving women💕
2025-07-18 00:50:50
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audrey :
Guys this isn’t an AITA post, you don’t have to choose a villain. This is simply a story about a regretful mother. It’s important that we see it from the perspective of someone who has a good partner (upfront with their feelings, appropriate reaction to confrontation, and a good parent once the kids arrived).
2025-07-18 03:51:35
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bethlehem :
She should’ve let him go. Not fair to him, not fair to the kids and certainly not fair to herself
2025-07-18 20:22:10
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Winston Cavoodle 🇦🇺 :
When you were already unsure about having children, getting pregnant with twins must have been especially overwhelming and emotionally devastating. 🤰 👶 👶
2025-07-18 00:35:49
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allie dee :
Wow she should of accepted the seperation and made herself happy
2025-07-18 06:18:54
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Ana Hernandez :
I'm sorry for her. But she chose this
2025-07-18 15:13:52
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bingbongleah :
crazy that people think having kids is glamorous
2025-07-22 23:11:54
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allegedlyjade :
Why the hell did she stay & then have kids. That’s on her.
2025-07-18 13:05:47
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shauna shipman’s lawyer :
why did she choose to stay? its rare that im on the husband’s side but he was clear from the beginning and he gave her an option to leave. she did this to herself.
2025-07-18 03:49:44
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philosophy.by.gillian :
She changed her mind on him. That’s allowed, but he gave her an out and she made choices. She should have left and he could have found someone who wouldn’t hate their life.
2025-07-18 04:02:44
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NotaTweeter16 :
never ever compromise on kids. if one person wants them & the other dsnt, then u need to break up.
2025-07-18 05:36:02
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₊˚⊹ ᰔSaltedfishegg :
Sometimes we can change our minds, i guess there’s a reason why childless and unmarried woman are the happiest 🤷♀️
2025-07-18 00:18:10
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