@bayavoce: “I’m sorry” is probably the phrase we use the most to avoid really feeling what’s happening between us. When your partner says sorry just to end the fight, it doesn’t land. It actually makes things worse because it skips over what really matters: the pain underneath. An apology isn’t about saying the right words as fast as possible. It’s about showing you see the hurt and are willing to sit with it even if it’s uncomfortable for you because your partner's pain matters. Next time you catch yourself rushing to say sorry, pause and ask, am I trying to heal this, or just shut it down? #relationships #communication #healing

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sunsetbeach_lvr
Nadia 🦋 :
I love most of your message, but I disagree that we say sorry just to make it go away. Some of us say sorry because we truly feel bad and want to show empathy and sorrow for the consequences we caused. Until now, we hadn’t been taught any differently.
2025-07-28 18:58:02
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cyphmen
Cyphmen !! 🕸️🧶 :
What else would you say when you show up late??
2025-07-27 16:53:09
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twilightplays__
Twilight :
so what do we say?
2025-07-27 12:53:41
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salvacion555
salvacion :
so , I'm sorry , I will do better 🥰 is it ok with that
2025-07-19 03:17:32
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rokkonkam1
ROKONKAMI :
i actually broke up with mah x cuz they were quick to apologize knowingly they're clueless abt the effects of their action :'))))
2025-07-30 12:58:10
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blaq_icing
Blaq_Icing :
DON'T TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE'S SAYING.. 🤭 Trust me, I'm more confused as u are.. 😭😂
2025-07-30 18:49:15
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_yaomega
yaomega :
Sorry is one of the words I hate so much
2025-07-21 10:50:58
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ddub001
Donald MW :
so how should we say sorry then??
2025-07-23 10:27:48
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nothing2seeheer
Donk Blankenstein :
Why can’t I be sorry up front, then when I have more information, I can repair properly?
2025-07-18 01:54:28
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davidlip502
DavidL :
Another incredibly accurate capture of how our words, even with a good intention can make things worse. Perhaps it’s better to say I’m sorry and ask what you can do to help your partner feel better. Or just drop I’m sorry and replace with “I’ve hurt you. Please tell me how so I can help?”
2025-07-18 01:55:13
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utatawakhoo
utatawakhoo :
i thought we’d get a solution
2025-07-30 17:06:49
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aden1844
Aden A748 :
exactly, when I am extremely late, I don't say I'm sorry for that reason.
2025-07-29 18:11:00
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notsobadx
Rjy.Glvz :
Instead of saying sorry. Use, thank you for waiting, work is intense and be sure be gentle with the voice.
2025-08-02 14:19:38
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user3097733947094
78th :
So what do I say instead???
2025-07-22 07:01:38
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c.rnae__
Cayla ✮ :
i stopped saying sorry unless i absolutely mean it. i also don’t take apologies from others lightly like i used to because most times they do it again.
2025-08-20 16:43:20
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m_on_relationships
Margaret Ellis :
Actions first! ❤️
2025-08-27 10:25:31
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thoriso485
Thoriso :
That’s why I told my partner do not apologize unless you understand why it is that I’m angry knowing doesn’t mean you understand you need to show that you understand
2025-07-24 08:26:31
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blayyyzen
BlazinDeals :
just leave … better to do it first and feel like a winner. Even if you lose. You still win.
2025-07-21 09:15:03
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tyresesuri
sephiroth🪽 :
never viewed saying sorry like this because I was raised to believe saying sorry is the first step to taking accountability and recognize what you did wrong
2025-08-29 14:33:13
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shadcheng
Ꭶ程 :
What if the partner tend to forget alot and easy things like some convo that he/she done wrong and says wont do it again but does it again because she forgotten it but doesnt mean to do it. Or like doesnt understand he/she’s text even if it is explained easy way
2025-08-11 19:37:10
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wowie0317
Wowie :
I really hate when my parter says sorry and I can feel the eye roll. That’s so wrong, but I don’t really quite get what’s wrong with saying you’re sorry that you’re late. Maybe also acknowledge that I understand if they’re frustrated with me? But overall, I don’t understand the problem with it.
2025-08-28 17:55:19
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sutureself
SutureSelf :
I show people I am sorry. Telling them sorry is only for the ego, not for the person.
2025-08-28 02:05:17
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erika.cupla
Erika Palmer :
Probably the best take on “sorry” I’ve heard. ❤️👌
2025-08-26 19:07:59
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sagacious6378
Sagacious :
the word you said I never say it. no longer has any meaning to it and there are better words out there 😎
2025-08-29 11:29:41
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teenyacorn
Nina :
This is really eye opening! My bf and I both do this sometimes and it really does feel different. I will definitely be asking myself this question
2025-07-24 04:43:21
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