@thoughtdaughterw: Avoidant attachments will be the death of me #holyariball #mh #avoidantattachment #relatablecontentonly #relatable #fyp

chlo :

i just get a weird butterfly panic feeling in my stomach when i’m with someone or anything starts to get serious

🐿️✮⋆˙ :

and people will say that we're horrible people

natali 🪳 :

Im trying so bad to fight it cuz he's such a good guy 😭

David Shave :

Shame on you

bea :

I hate it when butterflies in my stomach turn into nausea and panic. Why does something so romantic to everyone have to be something so disgusting to me?

sexyfineshyt67 :

i leave before they can leave me

sarah :

people just dont get it

jaylenee :

the feeling when they disgust you and u can’t eat 💔

zei :

u can hesl btw so yea u could control it!!

leonora :

This is so real omd. I wish i could change but idk i just can’t i feel so uncomfy

bel🕴️ :

AND overeating 😭

xoxoasvii :

He said “if u wanted to change you would” LIKE NO?

M :

Happy to know im Not alone in this 💕

Naomi :

Like I. CANT. NO. MORE

minni💐💐 :

i think it's a blessing

Tah-here • Enemies :

Just letting you know as someone who’s been with an avoidant. You guys are not evil, just misunderstood. It’s a trauma response. But please get help when you’re ready. Love shouldn’t feel dangerous 🫶🏽

Kiley 😼 :

B :

She just got up and left chat stay clear from avoidant attachments

ellaa._aaa :

woah. I’m just finding out what this is and i’ve never had something be so related i’m scared.

🥀𝒞ℋ𝒜𝒮🥀 :

Whenever any of you feel this way, keep going. Trust me, just keep going. Sometimes it’s easier to change when you find the right person too. But always keep going. You can’t unlearn this habit if you keep listening to it. Acknowledge when you feel this way and remind yourself it’s just you trying to self sabotage. (I was this way for a very long time. I still struggle with vulnerability but I’m comfortable in my current relationship and don’t feel the need to run from it)

azeem :

i been learning sm abt this and theres ways to fix this but the thought and process of it is genuinely so scary and vulnerable (vulnerable =scary) that its really hard too people do heal from avoidant attachment can takes years though reversing the patterns and implementing knowledge/self awareness to how you act in a relationship it takes alot of time but as long as you make the scary step and sit through the discomfort i believe all you guys will succeed in healing 🙏🙏

𝓘𝓳𝓮𝓸𝓶𝓪𝔁𝓲𝔁𝓲💗 :

Dam you Js described me in one slide . 🥀

𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐚̀𝐥🪷 :

Boy with Avoidant attachment girl with anxious attachment