@swamp_assbayou: Happy Saturday. On my way to library because reading and getting outside is important. You should try it. #transmenoftiktok #transgenderftm #transmasc #trans #transmen #t4t
Literally just scrolled from a DISGUSTING video calling us "tboy gamer gate" because we are talking about our rates of sexual violence and about our experiences. She even said "[trans men] can go back to their sex assigned at birth, a privilege trans women dont have" and it overall made me nauseous to watch. I cannot understand this vile fucking hatred for the other part of the trans community.
2025-07-20 20:57:09
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Nyx :
This is the same reason amab and masc presenting enbies also tend to feel excluded.
2025-07-19 18:31:29
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locksickk :
Call out. Men DO NOT WASH THEIR HANDS AFTER TAKING A SHIT IN PUBLIC RESTROOMS. Or even urinating. They don’t wash their hands at all ever. That is why they are afraid of is using the same restroom as them. It’s a secret they all share and we are DISGUSTED!!!! Wash your damn hands!!!!
2025-07-19 23:39:19
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sam :
I feel so alone as a trans man in the lgbtq community
2025-07-19 18:24:06
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caseybc64🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 :
I’m a trans guy, but I’m not sure I’m FTM enough to agree with this take. If cis women don’t trust me (as I pass more and more), I don’t blame them. I’ve had lots of SA at the hands of cis men and I don’t trust them either. There is so much about them and the privileges they have and the way that they, as a group, treat femme people that I want nothing to do with. And at 60, I know that having different takes is okay.
2025-07-27 02:19:34
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user.nickprez :
real talk help me understand this ladies angle and comment? what’s her deal
2025-07-20 03:44:20
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Jessie :
Genuine question, do you feel women are able to be politely cautious around you? Like not in queer spaces like strangers in public. I think that’s where some of the confusion is coming from.
2025-07-20 10:25:04
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Dr. Matt O. | PhD :
People project their trauma onto us a lot ☹️
2025-07-19 20:20:58
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after everything, i’m here. :
It’s frustrating to see how feminine transmen are treated, especially if they consider themselves JUST men, and not any form of nonbinary. Suddenly, gender nonconformity is thrown out the window because why is a man wearing a dress? 🙄
2025-07-20 13:35:32
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J Latshang, PhD :
As a BIPOC trans man, there are few white cis women in my life. When I was a woman of color I understood they were not safe. As a trans person I understand that even more. Being adjacent to the patriarchy and whiteness means safety to them, but no rewards, hence their anger.
2025-07-20 18:42:49
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PrettyCreativeArt :
A lot of them need to direct their concerns with the specific cis men who hurt them, but doing that is hard for a bunch of reasons & lots of them would rather punch down on trans men to feel better about themselves than talk about why cis men even get that bad in the first place and fix those problems.
2025-07-21 21:25:46
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Astro | 🍉🏳️⚧️ :
I keep wondering how many trans women show up for us in the comment sections of your video and similar ones I have seen for the last few weeks. Bc... I don't see yall see us. 😔 Either they don't get this on their fyp or they ignore how we fought alongside them against the intense transphobia they are facing when they got hit with waves of this shh by cis people. It's transphobia against trans men what we are seeing right now. Our own community denies it.
2025-07-22 07:57:45
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Mx. Amy B 🔻 :
100%. They love telling everyone else to go to therapy. But it’s clear they e never actually gone themselves
2025-07-20 07:21:57
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Chapin 🤠🏳️⚧️♿️ :
it literally makes no sense and it bothers me how they pretend like they’re trying to affirm yall and that yall are invalidating yourselves. makes no sense lol idk what goes on in their brains other than their own experiences and issues
2025-07-20 09:52:06
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HouseVeridianSystem :
Right?! It’s messed up that those services that could help us be barred off since we have a common ground with cis women.
2025-07-22 16:35:52
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idontworkhere :
seriously we have an opportunity to set an example as men rather than outing ourselves to show what men can be like when we show ourselves to be kind, empathetic, loving, understanding and all the things that certain parts of society tells men they're "weak" for. then there's no reason to feel "uncomfortable" cuz we're obviously not the threat.
2025-07-30 04:09:13
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the-mfing-dragon-king :
amab gender fluid here! I have literally heard a femme presenting person tell a transmasc to "dress more femme in order to make the others feel more comfortable" in a literal support group! and she got nods of agreement from the rest of the group! I walked out because that was straight up terf mentality! and it's the same situation for me because if I try to dress femme I get an identical reaction and it makes me feel like I am wrong for existing!
2025-08-07 07:03:12
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theekeyking :
Glad you saying it! Anytime I bring this up, it gets weird.
2025-07-19 18:40:57
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укрлан :
i wish i could repost but iim stealth
2025-07-20 17:05:55
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MB :
I could watch you talk all day, you’re so fucking handsome 😍
2025-07-20 16:31:06
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𝔪𝔞𝔱𝔱 ✩ :
You're expressing something I felt for so long very well 🥺
2025-07-20 14:37:18
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pnwis.magical :
I feel you, love. Not all men are unsafe.
2025-07-19 19:45:01
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😁 :
I think it’s far less of an issue with cishet women and far more an issue within the queer and non binary trans community.
2025-07-21 17:10:58
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Fletcher😷 :
One day they’ll realize this discourse hurts them. Maybe. Eventually. I’m not holding my breath.
2025-07-23 17:12:32
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