@keith.crossley1: When your partner tests you, it’s often not about you, it’s their fear of abandonment playing out. They push, they pull, they create chaos, all in an attempt to protect themselves from being hurt again. But this cycle can leave you feeling drained and confused, as you carry their wound while trying to reassure them. #relationships #healing #fearofabandonment #emotionalhealth #boundaries
There’s nothing I can do. Falsely accused me I have an abandoning him. I did everything first not very well, but then I adjusted how I was handling it. I only got more defensiveness from him. Said he would rather end the relationship and mourn the loss of it and me. Instead of leaning into the conflict and work on the issues with me. The same Relationship he would never leave and a relationship that was nothing but amazing. Rings a future planned together. And then he was not going anywhere. And for the longest time he was showing me he meant it. Fast forward to now, and he is the one who
2025-08-22 14:24:14
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secretdeathwish :
I kept proving myself to others when I just had to do it for myself.
2025-07-30 20:16:45
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Lisa🌸 :
Well he left me so can’t do anything about it😅
2025-10-17 15:47:30
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Sansan 💚💚💚 :
you mean avoidant attachment or anxious attachment?
2025-07-20 06:00:14
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warm Light :
I always did this unconsciously until I learned that I create my reality with my thoughts.💯👌
2025-09-02 00:16:38
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Lynn Whittaker :
👍❤️Absolutely created the situation that they feared the most couldn't have said it better myself sad but true
2025-07-21 22:59:33
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The BELOVED :
self protection gone sideways
2025-09-04 17:55:06
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Whitehouse Floors LL :
😍
2025-11-05 21:25:06
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johntoureau :
😂😂😂
2025-07-22 12:50:56
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The mooseman :
This is me, I have the woman of my dreams, and I'm so scared. She's gonna leave me. I keep doing things to sabotage the relationship. So that it's me doing the leaving, not her. How do I break this cycle? My brain is lying to me. And I don't know when to believe it, and when not to
2025-08-17 15:57:22
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