Blehhh :
Okay, a lot of the loneliness of men is self inflicted (not respecting women, not working on themselves to be a better person, not having more empathy) but there is also a big part of it where it’s entirely society’s fault. Boys have been told ever since they were able to talk, that they had to grow up to be men. And that meant being as far away from a women as you could be. That means showing too much empathy, feeling vulnerable, etc. were all “too feminine” to be a man. This causes men to not respect women because that was the image they were told to never be as a kid. They’re told that they need to be the provider, to have kids, to have their wife do the housework, to make more money than their wife if she is even working, to buy a big house (which isn’t 900k btw), and all of these “rules” just add to men not being emotionally ready to date a woman or be desirable to a woman. Women don’t WANT that stuff. A lot don’t want kids, a lot don’t care about your salary as long as you can support yourself, a lot want to work and strive for a career she went to college for, and A LOT are scared of men because they would rather become violent and entitled than put in work to become a better partner and man emotionally rather than keep their mindset from when they grew up
2025-07-28 19:14:27