Shazmeera | Confidence Lab
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intergalactic girl 🛸 :
1 Decenter Men 2 Decenter Parents ✍🏼
2025-08-13 18:19:00
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Lamees :
Decentering my parents healed my nervous system
2025-07-27 14:42:00
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mofadekemi :
Maturing is realizing that you have been living all your life trying to please them and no matter what you do, you will never please them
2025-08-09 08:56:46
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Benedicta :
“The obedient perfect daughter is hyper criticised” LOUDER! The overfamiliarity invites disrespect from them and makes them think they know you more than you know yourself😂 I thank God something snapped within me a long time ago as I ran back to myself. I no longer care about parents/family’s tactics to undermine. They will take away your humanity if you let them.
2025-07-23 08:49:33
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aurora_rose.01 :
This is SO incorrect. The scapegoat is never praised or talked nicely about they are the scapegoat for all the trash and toxicity from the parents and siblings and flying monkeys. The perfect one you are talking about IS the scapegoat.
2025-07-26 02:01:42
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jamilareza5 :
It's true for everyone. when you decenter people you have a much healthier relationship with them. family or not
2025-07-20 19:31:12
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Happy :
Are u god
2025-08-09 17:29:55
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ChelseaPea :
I have learned my parents don’t extend the same empathy or flexible standards to me that I do to them. Absolute game changer. Decentering them was the best decision.
2025-08-15 18:36:50
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🏡 :
ive gotten to a point where even though i love them i don’t love the way they live (and it’s more so their habits and mindset and stuff) and really don’t want to end up like either of them. and the annoyance and frustration i feel seeing how they live and cope with things just makes me want to be better and take better care of myself fr
2025-08-18 14:21:46
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peacemiangopie :
This healed me 🙏
2025-09-08 07:44:32
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Saher :
Love this!!!! Been working on this
2025-08-14 16:59:09
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Healing Through Nature Namibia :
yep . standing up to my mum and setting boundaries is healing me so much
2025-09-06 14:44:46
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GlinisBuffalo :
My mom passed 20 years ago and I didn’t have the luxury to depend on my dad who is alive today. I built my success on my own. This is very true, I had to do on my own.
2025-09-01 01:21:09
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Atmania :
Decentered parents in my 20s, got pulled into centering in laws in 30s 😅
2025-09-19 13:52:30
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Pearlita_J 🩵🦋 :
Decenter them and anyone else you need to.
2025-08-08 17:59:24
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Idyll :
I fought back twice and now I get everything i want with peace 🥰🥰 spoiled, no meaningless complaints, don't have to do anything, nobody overwhelmes me anymore ✌️
2025-07-24 15:51:15
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Alva Lyn Waldmann :
I’m gonna get my money and leave them omg
2025-07-28 15:12:54
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🇨🇦🇫🇷Rahi | Life in France :
😮💨😮💨 this was a word if I’ve ever heard one
2025-07-25 23:08:48
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Kween 🎀 💋💝 :
Yes as long as you dont cross Islamic lines when u decenter them! Decenter them!!
2025-07-29 01:09:27
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Ro❤️🔥 :
You cracked the code
2025-08-01 22:24:38
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jacquelynwalton1 :
My parents have been at the cemetery for a long time. We have a good relationship. They don't say anything now.
2025-07-20 22:01:58
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Semu :
It’s crazy tbh
2025-08-18 15:52:17
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Kira Nagy :
But I feel like being the strong independent daughter in their eyes means they don’t have to deal with your emotions as much as your sibling’s because “you can handle it”. Also, they can put a blame on you for everything so they don’t have to look inwards.
2025-07-25 13:34:22
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Sweetruin :
Oh god. My mom lives with me and I’m her caregiver and oh my god I don’t want to be responsible anymore
2025-07-20 21:29:09
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Enzoveli :
I don't know I might be both black sheep and an obedient child I do things when I want to not because parents pressured me to
2025-07-20 20:42:16
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