but deep down thats just normalizing avoidance rather than solving problems
2025-07-28 05:19:24
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Para Doxxx :
my misery doesn't love company 💖
2025-07-21 17:16:00
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🤍🦛🥸🎱🧯 :
just need a moment to collect my own thoughts.
2025-07-21 13:41:43
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shiesty🍓 :
everybody takes it personal😞
2025-07-21 14:19:30
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emitt fuller :
avoidant attachment
2025-07-21 15:26:58
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_JoscelynKultgen_ :
NO one understands and thinks i’m being a bad person/friend. Im sorry i can’t give you all my energy when i don’t even have enough to get through my day 🙏
2025-07-21 15:55:11
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jeanetteh305 :
Some how I manage to do both so no one ever notices whether im struggling or not 😅
2025-08-14 08:33:16
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Shelbie ☆ :
I think it's only toxic if you don't explain yourself to your friends and just ghost out of nowhere and expect nobody to worry about you, it's one thing to communicate you need time apart, it's another to just dip without an explanation.
2025-07-21 20:50:56
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styxx<3 :
it’s only toxic when you don’t communicate that, just randomly ghosting people who care about you tends to lead them to worry or think badly about themselves making them think “what did i do?”
2025-07-21 16:22:06
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amnazz17_ :
Real friends send a “ho is you alive?” message every other week only to get a thumbs up and then again the same time next week🤣
2025-07-21 20:52:35
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Celestial :
I do this too but lowk it’s unhealthy. The ppl in my life love me and want to help me, and if I want to create and maintain community I need to be vulnerable enough to be able to ask for and receive help - even if I think I don’t need/want it. Very frustrating problem hahaha
2025-07-21 15:43:46
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kyrah :
Are u Aquarius
2025-07-21 15:04:16
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Mimi :
Im the same way but everyone takes things soo personal now a days instead of checking up and asking
2025-07-22 14:03:49
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.!!&@^#&! :
for me, its because I dont think anyone cares and I wouldnt be missed. I would show Im feeling bad, and then I hide because Im scared no one is gonna check up on me or even talk to me, so I push them away before they can "reject" me first. I hate doing it but its an awful instinct, especially when I'm "right" about my fears
2025-07-22 08:09:56
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Hana :
Same is there a diagnosis for this
2025-07-21 14:34:01
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kai :
I don't think this a toxic trait, I do the same thing though so maybe I'm biased? I think handling stress on isolation is a byproduct of being hyper independent but also having self confidence and resilience. I'd rather always be able to handle things alone then always need emotional support from others when I'm stressed
2025-07-21 18:27:55
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Julie 🩷 :
Why cant people understand if someone is not talking like they used to ,to not take it personal? Unless that person is responding rude or its effects the relationship is where its an issue but if someone just isnt talking as much dont take it personal just make sure they are fine and move on until they are ready to talk
2025-07-21 18:47:09
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Dogsdawgsdawgz :
This. I almost physically can’t form the words to talk about it, even if I wanted to. Just let me deal with it, I’ll be ok.
2025-07-21 14:59:26
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Tik Toker :
Capricorn ♑🐐 vibes
2025-07-21 14:26:49
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olivia :
How is this toxic, If your removing yourself to take time and process your emotions so you don’t take it out on other that seems healthy?
2025-07-21 16:09:28
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▶︎ •၊၊||၊|။|||||။၊ 00:08 :
my misery does NOT love company
2025-07-22 01:47:01
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lunaf :
people take it so personally ;-;
2025-07-22 12:40:20
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LITZY 🩵 :
See I do that but then everyone leaves me
2025-07-22 14:04:22
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