I think what’s especially tough is you see them being there for friends and family, but they leave you when you need them the most! (I get it, and I get why, but it doesn’t change how it affects you!). Happened to me twice with my ex DA bf. Never again!
2025-07-22 09:21:01
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Katie Jane Clarke :
My grandad just died (he was basically my dad) my ex left me 5 days later no reason, packed his stuff while I wasn’t there and left. Put all the blame on me. Left me at my lowest I’ll never forgive him
2025-07-22 08:56:08
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Charlotte’s Urban Reading Room :
I’m not fighting for someone that acts like they hate me. I’ll be damn!
2025-07-22 14:20:04
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Queen-7902 :
When someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time or spend a lifetime learning the harsh lesson of continued disappointment.
2025-07-22 08:48:51
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Tyra Smiley :
Yup! They actually make it worse. Kick you when you’re down
2025-07-22 14:44:33
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🖤 𝒞𝒶𝓇𝓁𝒶 🖤 :
I lost my dad tragically in 2022. Had to take him off life support. My ex didn’t even show up. Nor did he come to the funeral. I’ll NEVER FORGET it.
2025-07-22 13:49:02
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Q :
I lost my job and I saw the real version of her
2025-07-22 12:04:38
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emuhleigh716 :
Yuuup. I got pregnant and he was like “gotta go byeeee”
2025-07-22 11:43:44
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Priscilliann Canario :
This is what devestated me most. That's how I knew he wasn't my person. It's embarrassing!
2025-07-22 05:16:24
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dgirl180 :
My mom was in and out of the hospital for 3 months He got mad at me for being emotional about it
2025-07-22 07:00:16
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Heidi4829 :
Or good things. I was awared a huge grant I had been working on for 2 years! He never congratulated me or said anything. I had people in the entire community reaching out. Old partners calling to say they were proud of me. I even sent a clip of it on the news to him. When I asked if he watched it, he said no he hadn't he was too busy.
2025-07-22 10:08:39
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Angel :
Lord give me an secure or anxious attached man 🧍♂️
2025-08-14 01:54:13
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D :
I’ve come to the conclusion that the only way to have any kind of relationship with an avoidant is a situationship. Because you don’t have to stress over where they are, days without communication.
2025-07-22 09:06:02
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Shellz❤️ :
Facts mine walked away the same day I got a health diagnosis
2025-07-22 12:55:29
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👑Aaliyah Thomas👑 :
sir you be spot the hell on😭
2025-07-22 08:29:09
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DarlingDarlaDarlene Creates✨ :
I got pretty sick and he ✌🏽
2025-07-22 05:04:28
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Deborah D :
Yep! But they'll be there for their coworkers, ex, family, a stranger, etc. They'll be there for everyone EXCEPT you 💔😔
2025-07-22 17:27:24
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aandrova_5 :
Didn’t ask for days on end when i was in hospital having survived death. 9 weeks in hospital. Confronted him: im busy sorry. snapchat showed a high activity every day. They not that busy they are egocentric grown toddlers. Cowards
2025-07-24 13:16:52
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Fairyglow.ae :
So true he left me 4 days before an important exam and two week before my surgery
2025-07-22 10:15:58
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to_moje :
True, mine ghosted me few days before Easter, than my dad had a stroke, he couldn’t even pick up the phone from me and broke up with me 4 days later just because he felt better alone
2025-07-22 06:45:14
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Tone Hee :
Idk if she’s the one Antonio 😂 this was a cruel reminder of who they really are in the moments where you may need them most in life
2025-07-22 13:49:09
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Rosie Vear :
eurgh! I've just left my avoidant after 3.5 years. The final straw being me ambulanced off to hospital TWICE unable to walk and talk. Suspected stroke then diagnosed with MS. In hospital for 10 days. He didn't visit once because he "had to work". Couldn't even be there emotionally for me on the phone either. I was his "Soulmate" though. 🤦🏼♀️😆
2025-07-22 09:08:02
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YoungDeemo🧛🏼♂️ :
almost died and broke no contact cause i just needed her to be there for me, and she yell at me to leave her alone and she hung up on me
2025-07-22 05:24:47
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🧘🏾♀️🩵 :
You seem like the dream partner 😂
2025-07-22 08:15:38
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chelby :
yep recently i was not well gave cpr at my work to someone and it was my brothers death anniversary all bunched up together ill never forget he wasent there ill never want him back after
2025-07-22 06:30:35
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