@br4y1en_fitness: It is important to be the best person u can be for ur partner, if they arent worth ur best effort then find someone else. point is it shouldnt take a breakup for u to start putting in effort and working on urself. If that has happened to u, do not let it continue to happen in future relationships. Always do ur best and work hard whether u are in or out of a relationship. I’m not above anyone else, I am also guilty of this but I have changed since then and want to spread this because society tells young men that they will work on themselves after a breakup but no one ever talks about how u should have been ur best self for that girl during the relationship.