Hi Blanca, I’ve been following you since your 2018 playlist videos. You’ve come a long way, and it’s been inspiring to watch. But respectfully, what you said wasn’t right. Woman to woman, mom to mom, you know how hard motherhood can be. Having a village isn’t a flex, it’s a blessing. But let’s not forget that not every mom has that option. Some of us are doing this without nearby family, partners, or any real support. It’s not about trying to prove anything, it’s just our reality. So yes, we’re tired. And we’re still showing up.
2025-07-23 19:29:08
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Adyleneꨄ :
tiktok is so toxic sometimes , blanca has never been in any drama or had so much hate 😭 if yall would actually follow her and watch her like many of us have for years then yall would understand what she said , yall just like to take anything and run with it without no context
2025-07-23 16:18:55
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yuliibulii :
I am tired and not rested 🙃
2025-07-23 15:51:34
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mmxsc0103 :
As a mom that works ALOT ! I’m very much tired and not rested I don’t have a village because my parents live too far and I don’t trust anyone with my kids me and my kids dad swap the kids😩
2025-07-23 16:59:40
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arianaa⭐️ :
YEAH girl im exhausted because grandma doesn’t raise my kid
2025-07-24 05:32:20
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Lupitaaaa👽🎈 :
Y ese milagro que la mamá no está limpiando la casa y asiendo de comer…🫢
2025-07-23 22:43:29
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Ana :
Do they ever get tired of the same breakfast 💕my son likes different breakfast everyday 😭
2025-07-23 15:26:28
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Virgo. :
My village “my beautiful parents” both passed away.. not everyone is blessed to have a village to help you raise a family. But I’m raising my 3 girls , while working a full time job. That’s my biggest flex! Because it’s not easy AT ALL. I’m sorry not everyone is as lucky as you.
2025-07-23 23:31:28
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LeslieLpz :
Pero la mamá le ase todo #motheroftheyear
2025-07-24 00:21:14
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Erica :
Is taking care of your own kids a flex, yes!!! Is having a village to help you with your kids a flex, yessss!! Both are in my opinion!!!💓
2025-07-23 19:10:45
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Evelyn Nodal :
"And your tired and not rested" hit me because tbh I am tired and not rested but guess why.. cause I dont have a village like you.. You are trully blessed. Dont get me wrong I love taking care of my kids but staying home with 3 kids under 4 is tiring and sometimes overstimulated. I wish I had a village to be able to treat myself. Yet I treat my self but I have to take my kiddos along. It's my reality...
2025-07-24 06:43:26
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daniiela ✨🎀 :
I’m tired & not rested 🙃
2025-07-23 23:16:18
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HOSANA.CASTEL :
She fed them guys! Now it’s time for her mom to show up and clean so she can rest …las mamas somos chingonas, asi no Estemos rested nos levantamos y seguimos, amamos y cuidamos a nuestros hijos sin importar el cansancio mental y emocional
2025-07-24 05:41:32
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𝒥𝒶𝓎𝓎𝓎🥀 :
Que mal que que hallas hecho ese comentario “and you’re tired and not rested” no todas tienen la dicha de tener a sus madres cercas o la ayuda que tú tienes con tus hijos si te molesta que te digan eso es porque es la verdad y te calo uno como madre es nuestra responsabilidad cuidar siempre de nuestros hijos pero la mayoría del tiempo tu mamá siempre está haciendo casi todo imagínate para las madres solteras que no tienen la ayuda de nadie te pasas mijaaaaa
2025-07-24 01:34:10
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𝓐𝓻𝓮𝓵𝓲| SAHM | 🫶🏼💗🌸 :
Blanca I’ve been following you since 2016. You’ve came a really long way & I’m happy for you but respectfully what you said was not okay. Cada quien tiene su opinión en como ven las cosas but majority of your following are Hispanics. People who are from other countries not everyone has the blessing to have a village here in the states to help out. So yes YES it’s a flex to raise your kids alone.
2025-07-24 01:26:02
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Gaby Jimenez :
ive watched the podcast and the clips and im having a hard time understanding why we are all trying to cancel her? 😭 I have no village with 3 kids and It didn’t offend me at all lol I Still love watching all your videos 🫶🫶
2025-07-23 23:46:53
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ItsEliCastillo :
I dnt understand all the hate… and they dnt need to apologize for anything. I think people took it the wrong way. Blanca and jonathan should be able to “flex”. They have worked for what they have and to have her mom watch her kids while they work and be able to pay her!? Its amazing! Again because they have worked hard for that! I think people are blinded because it is her mom that i guarantee if they were paying someone else to watch the kids they wouldnt say anything about that. Her work looks different than a regualr “9-5” so people arent seeing that in the end its still the same because they still put in the work. I dnt think they meant it in a bad way people just need to see different perspectives. And not be mad because someone is happy at where theyre at in their life. And i agree its not a flex to take care of your kids or be everything for your kids, its the bare minimum 🤷🏽♀️
2025-07-23 15:56:52
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Lizbeth 🍒 :
I don’t care what anyone else says you and Jonathan are amazing parents! 🫶🏻
2025-07-23 18:23:38
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Euniceaguilar :
AHH NO CON MI BLANCA NO. ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✨✨
2025-07-23 18:48:35
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Nautica Gutierrez :
I lovee you guys so much! I don’t have a village that being said I’m not angry or have bad feeling toward you because you do!! I’m happy for you and your kids to be able to have so much. I don’t feel it’s a flex to raise my daughter without a village. I’m a mother that’s what I do. That’s what I’m suppose to do because I brought a child into this life knowing that prior and not expecting it from anybody.
2025-07-23 18:27:09
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Leslie Centeno :
Let’s stop shaming either or! Why is this even a topic to discuss? Village or no village, as long as you’re a good, caring, present parent, that’s the real flex❤️
2025-07-23 21:18:58
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