@melrobbins: It is so important to understand this about adult friendship. You have to learn to Let Them. Thank you @thematthewhussey for having me on the Love Life podcast! Check it out now on all streaming platforms, 🎧 "277: The #1 Tool to Reduce Anxiety in Your Relationships w/ Mel Robbins." #melrobbins #letthem #letthemtheory #letme

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madelinelawlor
MadelineLawlor :
I’ll never understand when people expect you to show up for them and they don’t even show up for you
2025-07-24 01:21:31
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ellen.stanley0
Ellen Stanley🇨🇦 :
I threw most of the parties and now I don’t. No invites.
2025-07-23 20:50:41
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juliealiceblack
Julie Alice Black :
adult friendships sucks. I've never felt so lonely and isolated.
2025-07-24 04:10:54
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realnotbruce
RealNotBruce :
Finding your people gets more difficult as you get older
2025-07-24 02:43:38
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authorphoenixryder
Phoenix Ryder | Author :
Adult friendships revolve around couples. Period.
2025-07-24 16:10:57
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myunpopularopinion1
myunpopularopinion1 :
I do the work it’s a lot of the others that don’t reciprocate
2025-07-23 23:10:52
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festiveme3
FestiveMe :
It’s hard when you show up 110% and no one is willing to reciprocate
2025-07-25 00:51:56
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ericadangelo1
GhostRobot :
I had to learn that for most people being "friends" as an adult means meeting up for drinks 3-4 times per year. It's pretty unrewarding so I find I'm not making the effort anymore.
2025-07-24 13:06:42
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vik_fel
Vik :
At 30 I'm only losing friends not gaining new ones 🥲
2025-07-25 20:25:29
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deanneolinger
Deanne Olinger :
I try this with multiple friends. Unless I ask call and schedule it doesn’t happen.. it’s so exhausting for me. I value friendship.. no one else seems to make the effort.
2025-07-24 14:27:40
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damoncannon506
Damon Cannon Business Pro :
yes
2025-07-26 11:58:06
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briloeramusic
Brianne Loera :
Omg this resonates with me so much— adult friendships are difficult and at times overwhelming to navigate
2025-07-25 17:52:33
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albanegron0
Alba Negron88 :
I have never felt lonely and I don't have friends at all I have coworkers thats all
2025-07-23 23:24:10
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metamike76
Mike :
Zero Efforting Friends = Zero Friends
2025-07-24 14:59:27
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plantyone1
plantyone :
its even more difficult being single with married/children friends. singled are not included in the married people things.
2025-07-25 04:32:39
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jawlee.holly
Jolly Holly :
TRUTH BOMBS!!! ahhh! I love it!
2025-07-24 04:16:42
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munecatw27
Miriam :
I stopped texting people. And I’ve had 4 friends text me to check up on me and it felt good to know those do care.
2025-07-24 15:54:05
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cyamonica
cyamonica :
Adult friendships are something else! The most beautiful thing but will cut you to your core.
2025-07-24 12:42:44
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martellzamantaki
𝓜𝓪𝓻𝓽𝓮𝓵𝓵 :
I’d do anything to have an hour with this woman 😢
2025-07-23 17:38:25
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jess_tha_best9
Jess | ATX Food & Lifestyle :
Reason why I’m adulting and friendless 😅
2025-07-24 04:23:26
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jordanreyn2
Jordan✨ :
Mel, you're so great!! I love listening to everything you say
2025-07-23 16:46:26
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bailey_wilson00
bails :
Will never understand why it’s so hard for people to understand this as someone who is always making the plans and would rather people show up than wait for an unnecessary invite
2025-07-24 03:58:42
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702christy
Christina :
It’s very hard being 52 and being someone that’s been single for a long time. I don’t fit in the box with the rest of the women that are around me. My kids are all grown. I don’t have a significant other. I don’t have much in common with anyone anymore.
2025-07-23 22:55:21
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_whatuheard
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This is so true
2025-07-23 17:00:21
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lola_vanessa1
Vanessa :
But what about the moments where you’re the only one making the effort 😔
2025-07-24 02:58:07
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