@keith.crossley1: If it feels like love but is only causing pain—it’s not love. It’s a trauma bond. The cycle is predictable: pain, apology, relief, repeat. You’re not crazy. You’re just caught in a loop your nervous system thinks is safety. But real love doesn’t come with confusion, chaos, or questioning your worth. You don’t need to fix them. You need to find you again. Comment “light” to get a free copy of the first chapter of my book: A State Within Light #traumabond #toxicrelationships #HealingJourney #emotionalabuse #nervoussystemhealing

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mallanballan84
1933 :
When the trauma bond is broken, you are free.
2025-07-27 10:06:27
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baleighbutler
Baleigh Butler :
It’s been 3 days since I packed up and left and this just shatters my whole heart. Will it ever get easier?😭
2025-08-20 23:56:44
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charlenepearl84
Charlene pearl :
trauma bond is the hardest thing I ever had to get out of
2025-07-29 17:13:08
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secretdeathwish
secretdeathwish :
I thought I was loving. Turns out, I was just chasing relief I never really felt.
2025-08-05 21:18:27
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eml6974
♌️TDA♌️ :
It's soul shattering 🥺
2025-07-27 11:11:28
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ldinwiddie82
Leah :
my current situation, I know I need to leave but the chaos is what im used to. help! 🥺
2025-08-11 00:33:13
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boltonranch
Christopher Bolton :
Wow. That’s real
2025-07-25 19:59:20
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noahdanford89
Noah :
He’s right I can’t remember what I was was before I don’t even recognize who I am anymore
2025-08-10 17:22:55
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itsmebren_l
Brenda :
When you finally leave the narcissist turns into a psychopath. Be safe!
2025-08-27 22:48:30
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khrikette
khrikette :
remember, love is consistent.
2025-09-01 04:48:55
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je_79_
JC79 :
I Was in this, and it’s only in the last few weeks I found out about a truama bond and what it was. So much now makes sense and I now realise why.
2025-07-26 13:50:52
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heatherw1228
heather :
im just tired of my kids seeing the vicious cycle. mentally I can endure anything he throws at me, I hate them seeing it though
2025-08-26 21:18:06
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appalachianproud74
❌️🧡Jeanie🧡❌️ :
I dealt with it for nearly 20 years. Thank God, I left 4 days ago
2025-08-03 12:18:33
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aminakalam13
Amy :
28 years and I am damaged
2025-07-29 21:16:13
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meddinah6
meddinahmeddinah6🇮🇷🇵🇸🇱🇧 :
woow very well explained i wish someone could hear this
2025-08-21 07:23:41
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_aur0ra_09
Aür0r@ :
I hate being trauma bonding it sucks 😫
2025-08-28 22:41:16
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gzzzzzzz27
gzzzzzzz :
Feels like your going through withdrawals when you leave
2025-08-24 11:27:04
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intrimitida20
intrimitida20 🏳️‍🌈🌈 :
It is so hard to get out of that ttauma bond loop even we’re separated for 5 months. Im still stuck. But im fighting this kind of feeling. No such explanation how i feel. 🥺
2025-08-03 10:22:44
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a.picc2025
Angela Picc :
Worst experience of my life 12 years post divorce and I still haven’t broke it completely
2025-09-07 14:32:08
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kimwhite090
Kim White :
Am currently working through a trauma bond and it’s so painful but am slowly getting there
2025-08-20 07:30:21
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the.darkbrain
Dark Brain :
Trauma bonds are the chains you don’t see… until it’s too late.
2025-08-26 06:25:53
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www.hope13
Hope :
So true
2025-07-25 16:13:38
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lisajhooper
Lisa Hooper :
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
2025-07-29 13:36:29
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tracewald
Tracewald :
Light
2026-04-26 22:49:26
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linkin677
Debbie67💜🇨🇦🫟 :
Yep 😭😭😭😭
2025-10-02 01:27:57
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