@keith.crossley1: If it feels like love but is only causing pain—it’s not love. It’s a trauma bond. The cycle is predictable: pain, apology, relief, repeat. You’re not crazy. You’re just caught in a loop your nervous system thinks is safety. But real love doesn’t come with confusion, chaos, or questioning your worth. You don’t need to fix them. You need to find you again. Comment “light” to get a free copy of the first chapter of my book: A State Within Light #traumabond #toxicrelationships #HealingJourney #emotionalabuse #nervoussystemhealing
It’s been 3 days since I packed up and left and this just shatters my whole heart. Will it ever get easier?😭
2025-08-20 23:56:44
83
Charlene pearl :
trauma bond is the hardest thing I ever had to get out of
2025-07-29 17:13:08
48
secretdeathwish :
I thought I was loving. Turns out, I was just chasing relief I never really felt.
2025-08-05 21:18:27
12
♌️TDA♌️ :
It's soul shattering 🥺
2025-07-27 11:11:28
208
Leah :
my current situation, I know I need to leave but the chaos is what im used to. help! 🥺
2025-08-11 00:33:13
16
Christopher Bolton :
Wow. That’s real
2025-07-25 19:59:20
32
Noah :
He’s right I can’t remember what I was was before I don’t even recognize who I am anymore
2025-08-10 17:22:55
14
Brenda :
When you finally leave the narcissist turns into a psychopath. Be safe!
2025-08-27 22:48:30
6
khrikette :
remember, love is consistent.
2025-09-01 04:48:55
18
JC79 :
I Was in this, and it’s only in the last few weeks I found out about a truama bond and what it was. So much now makes sense and I now realise why.
2025-07-26 13:50:52
5
heather :
im just tired of my kids seeing the vicious cycle. mentally I can endure anything he throws at me, I hate them seeing it though
2025-08-26 21:18:06
9
❌️🧡Jeanie🧡❌️ :
I dealt with it for nearly 20 years. Thank God, I left 4 days ago
2025-08-03 12:18:33
13
Amy :
28 years and I am damaged
2025-07-29 21:16:13
29
meddinahmeddinah6🇮🇷🇵🇸🇱🇧 :
woow very well explained i wish someone could hear this
2025-08-21 07:23:41
5
Aür0r@ :
I hate being trauma bonding it sucks 😫
2025-08-28 22:41:16
6
gzzzzzzz :
Feels like your going through withdrawals when you leave
2025-08-24 11:27:04
92
intrimitida20 🏳️🌈🌈 :
It is so hard to get out of that ttauma bond loop even we’re separated for 5 months. Im still stuck. But im fighting this kind of feeling. No such explanation how i feel. 🥺
2025-08-03 10:22:44
11
Angela Picc :
Worst experience of my life 12 years post divorce and I still haven’t broke it completely
2025-09-07 14:32:08
6
Kim White :
Am currently working through a trauma bond and it’s so painful but am slowly getting there
2025-08-20 07:30:21
7
Dark Brain :
Trauma bonds are the chains you don’t see… until it’s too late.
2025-08-26 06:25:53
7
Hope :
So true
2025-07-25 16:13:38
6
Lisa Hooper :
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
2025-07-29 13:36:29
5
Tracewald :
Light
2026-04-26 22:49:26
1
Debbie67💜🇨🇦 :
Yep 😭😭😭😭
2025-10-02 01:27:57
1
To see more videos from user @keith.crossley1, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.