@scalingstories: u/DefythePatriarchy My mom and I are in a massive fight because she insists my fiancé is an abuser and will turn my future children racist and beat me, but he’s the most loving, gentle, caring person I know. Plus four updates. 0:00 Original Post 4:05 Update (6 Days Later) 9:55 Second Update (1 Month Later) 12:16 Third Update (7 Months Later) 13:31 Fourth Update (6 Days Later) #scalingstories #minecraftparkour #reddit #redditreadings #redditstories
"self diagnosed autistic"? 😭 what? i have to admit although i'm mostly on op's side, everyone in this story sounds exhausting
2025-07-24 16:19:41
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Nonofyourbussiness :
Did her brother slso suffer a brain injury? because why is he siding with the mom?!
2025-07-24 15:21:58
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Brooklyn :
Even IF op’s fiancé was an abuser and was trying to isolate her, this is not the way to bring that topic up. You do it quietly, you ensure the person knows you can support them, offer them resources and try to slowly convince them that they are in a dangerous situation and to leave. You never escalate a situation with an abuser, you just never know how they will react. The mother would be actively helping to ensure her daughter would be completely isolated by blowing up like she is, it would only be more ammo for the fiancé.
2025-07-24 15:11:23
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readkagurabachi :
i’m confused bc it sounds like she’s a self-sufficient woman who doesn’t depend financially on her mother, why exactly then would she need permission to go to Puerto Rico?
2025-07-24 16:36:27
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Eve :
parents forcing their adult children to have life360 and stalking them with it is a huge red flag. my ex's family did that and we couldn't do hardly anything because they would call him if we weren't where we were "supposed to be". OP needs to cut them off
2025-07-24 15:20:05
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mellie ☥ :
the life360 thing is crazy her family sounds toxic 😭
2025-07-24 15:29:52
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🍉Pepper a Cat🍉 :
That's crazy that they expect her location to be on constantly AND CONSTANTLY WATCH IT
2025-07-24 15:08:31
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Sophia.sgv :
Ok got into the video later. Why the heck do they both NEED to know where a 25 yo is at all time. Her brother is 23 and needs to get a life and her mom’s only 50. What???
2025-07-24 15:23:23
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The mother’s projection 🥀
2025-07-24 15:04:08
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Milk 🐸 :
they threatened to k!ll themselves?! and the way the mom treats her... yeah, she is emotionally manipulative and Op needs to cut her off for her own mental health
2025-07-24 15:27:50
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milkywaybandit18 :
you're telling me every personal relationship her mom had has ended with the other party cutting ties??? at a certain point you gotta look in the mirror and confront the problem
2025-07-24 15:17:00
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Steph :
Wonder why the brother agrees with the mom about the fiancé. Perhaps it’s easier than arguing with her since he lives with her?
2025-07-24 15:18:40
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user7182645691351 :
Her mom was emotionally holding her hostage
2025-07-24 15:30:46
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knead :
op’s mom wants op to be as lonely and miserable as her by projecting her trauma onto op’s relationship 😔 who needs enemies with a mom like this…
2025-07-24 15:29:28
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Specty :
Everyone when you post:
2025-07-24 15:04:14
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♬♫ ꪖɀꪖꪹỉ ♬♫ :
her mom and brother uses life360 to monitor her every move when she's 25
2025-08-08 19:57:03
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Syd 🍁 :
having a tbi is a reason why the mom has certain feelings but it's not an excuse for her behavior. The mom refuses to treat her daughter as an adult and is emotionally abusive not to mention controlling. I'm glad OP finally set boundaries
2025-07-24 15:16:48
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Ann 🇨🇦 🏳️🌈 :
Anyone who has never experienced dealing with a person who has a TBI has no idea just how hard it can be. OP needs to understand that her mom is not the same person she used to be and unfortunately will only get worse.
2025-07-24 15:49:30
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D1RT | JAX :
I'm so tired of so many people being doormats to their disgusting excuses of family
2025-07-24 16:17:28
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miss.penguin🐧 :
OP has already clocked out of her relationship with her mom a long time ago and has not come to terms with it
she just needs to cut her mom off
2025-07-24 15:23:38
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SansaSnarks :
My parents would give anything to see my relationship fail. It’s unfortunate but some parents truly don’t want their children to be happy, especially in their relationships
2025-07-24 15:07:37
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No thanks :
I would have blocked them forever after the desert thing. I would be done
2025-07-24 16:54:32
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shaniaarnold332 :
Moms projecting. They're emotionally manipulative, and seem to have a "us vs them" mentality. Even if OP didnt marry her fiance, they'd do this with any future relationship she had
2025-07-24 16:04:41
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ThatGirlAnti :
Injury or not…I would of had to go NC, the mom and brother are EXHAUSTING 😭
2025-07-24 15:44:20
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Skojaen Darkrose :
The fact that Mum's cut ties with all her siblings and has alienated her children from family has me asking questions.
2025-07-24 18:47:02
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