@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: Only you know what’s best for you in your relationship — and I’m aware that relationships are complex and multilayered. But ALL of the “you leave” examples in this video are taken from clients’ experiences or my personal own. What we all have in common is that every one of our narcissistic relationships worsened over time. And so many of us can point to the same types of behaviors from the beginning that were screaming red flags. I offer these examples as a point of reference and to put you on alert for narcissistic abuse. If and when you’re ready to leave, please do so safely. #narcissist #fyp #abuse #toxicrelationship #relationshipadvice #narctok
The first time you cry in bed at night beside him and he does nothing to comfort you , leave
2025-07-24 13:05:17
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Carson :
“When they choose someone else’s comfort over your discomfort” 😮💨😮💨😮💨
2025-07-24 15:38:44
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shaylahc1 :
My narcissist was covert. He stonewalled, lied, gaslit, cheated on me, and discarded me after I saw behind the mask. Some narcissists are “quiet and shy”
2025-07-24 00:40:24
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zugarbebe :
Every bullet point was a flashback.
2025-07-24 08:27:41
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She Knows Her Power :
I confirm that it get worse ... 😔
2025-07-24 00:52:12
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JustJulie🇨🇦 :
If I had left after the first wall punch or face scream…I would have saved myself 20+years of chaos, destruction and heartbreak.
2025-07-24 13:17:15
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Tik Tok Hawk :
I'm ashamed that I ignored repeated red flags for years
2025-07-24 11:20:18
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Marlee Mar :
You leave because there is no way to communicate your way through abusive behavior.
2025-07-24 14:51:43
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allisonbown1984 :
This needs to be played on a loop when you start to justify early in a relationship.
2025-07-24 04:36:09
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🇨🇦 Kate 🇨🇦 :
The first time the choose someone else’s comfort over you discomfort is not talked about enough
2025-07-24 14:46:08
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Jane Carder :
Well it’s easier said then done when you have no way to leave 😢
2025-07-26 00:27:22
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Writerbythebeach :
zero tolerance. no second chances.
2025-07-24 15:09:27
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Sheryl Marty :
I did and it's been over years.
2025-07-30 18:22:13
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Elizabeth B :
Ladies listen. Leave leave leave. Immediately
2025-07-24 11:33:11
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Pinklady321 :
I wish I knew about covert narcissism over 20 years ago.
2025-07-24 08:55:43
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Kim :
You leave WHILE you can ♥️
2025-07-24 01:29:18
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charleys97 :
Silent treatment is the worst 😢
2025-07-24 11:40:47
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user490897842158 :
I would have left the first day instead if 28 years later
2025-07-24 03:43:13
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Debbie-Jo :
The screaming in my face was shocking
2025-07-24 03:03:22
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Sally :
My narcissist was the king of gaslighting. I haven’t been with him for almost 30 years, but it changed my trajectory. I remain single because of that relationship.
2025-07-24 03:42:29
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Clarkinney :
Oooooh the first time they scream in your face hits home. I always tell everyone I should’ve left the first time he screamed at me
2025-07-24 03:10:43
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Plslevmealoneimtired🇨🇦 :
Had a guy freak out about how I was doing MY laundry… it was like our 3rd hang out. I dumped him. He then stalked me for 3 months. Believe your gut. Leave fast, leave quietly.
2025-07-24 10:49:02
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KIM💥🐺 ( GRANDMA KIM ) 🦋 :
They do change but usually it’s not for the better, it does get worse
2025-07-26 16:12:33
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