kiana jade
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axolot :
Its not even that. Its the fact they know all your trauma and still do the exact same thing you told them not to do
2025-07-25 06:24:17
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chris is a 🏳️🌈♐ :
The hard truth is that your abandonment issues are your responsibility to heal and someone else not abandoning you isn't the solution.
2025-07-27 04:41:40
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Incognito :
what if that person is your partner and they consider their ex's feelings over yours time and time again. #askingforafriend
2025-08-30 12:02:53
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Cole :
Healing is not someone else’s responsibility, it’s yours — Sincerely, a man with childhood abandonment trauma.
2025-07-28 22:33:07
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OG LukasCZE :
My partner and I have been together for four years. Relationship can be difficult sometimes as i have an anxious attachment style, and she has an avoidant attachment style, due to her unstable and unsafe childhood and past trauma and bad experiences. We have had a few bad clashes but always worked it out. I'm always learning how to communicate better, make her feel better, feel safer, understand her emotions and triggers, give her the space and support she needs and to be the best man i can befor her, without loosing myself in a process. But... It is a very difficult journey. I know she loves me immensely but when she spirals, her withdrawal really hurts me sometimes. Anxious with avoidant relationships can in fact work, but both must put in the work and effort and learn about each others insecurities, triggers and needs. Then you can both help each other heal, feel loved and safe.
2025-07-24 12:03:27
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♑Erin🍄🌿🌵 :
it's why I keep people at arms length. if I don't get too close, I won't get hurt, right? 😅
2025-07-28 21:49:13
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a_lil_travisty :
so if you personally need space, your feelings dont matter? if I need an hour or so after an argument. its not an unfair request
2025-08-26 22:57:05
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Joshua🔥(Unhinged Chaos)🔥 :
going on a week and a half. trying not to lose it
2025-07-29 16:49:57
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Aspen :
I’ve been on both sides of this. I also have abandonment issue. And yes, it’s hard when people take space, but you also gotta understand that they’re allowed too if they’re struggling. Everyone deals with things differently, and the overthinking if someone takes space is to be expected, but we’re all human beings and we all deserve to do what’s best for us. When I say I’m taking space I mean it, and I reassure the other person to my best ability. As someone who’s been on both sides of this I know both perspectives.
2025-07-26 00:44:59
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codysendler :
Not my ex actively telling me I was too much; and that no person will ever be enough for me, or be able to love me enough.
2025-09-14 20:45:01
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marisgraysings :
I got called too much the other day hurt me so bad 🥲
2025-07-26 04:39:43
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YoBarkeep :
This is day 5 and I'm trying really hard to not fall apart. Again.
2025-07-25 00:42:29
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Denise :
I know exactly what this feels like
2025-07-25 00:34:35
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dia ❀ :
silent repost
2025-07-24 21:46:16
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user1913431113014 :
Repetitive unhealed and unprocessed grief brought them there. Not me needing space. Immediate pass
2025-09-06 13:32:53
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Barbie Q :
just found someone,i asured him i wont let him down and will always be by his side when he needs me.and i mean that.i hope he knows that
2025-09-09 05:19:21
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mars23 :
what if adults just learn coping skills.?
2025-09-02 03:01:54
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user18144920661 :
it's a double edged sword. you have to respect what they need mentally... but also it hurts a freaking lot. like what can you do? you can't hate on them for needing space. but it'll never stop me feeling like I was too much.
2025-07-28 06:22:09
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JQKER :
internet doesn't help honestly
2025-08-28 20:18:19
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Leona Weber :
heal you're abandonment for your sake so you can start being gentler instead of wishing others would. you will feel better
2025-09-04 12:10:48
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yuna! :
we both have abandonment issues and i was trying to read regular social coes for after a heavy discussion by giving them some space and he took it as an attack because i didnt tell him and he didn’t want space, brother, you were part of this too use your words to tell me theeennnn
2025-09-08 13:08:50
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♑️Jana Batman🏳️🌈 :
For all of my 45 years…
2025-09-07 21:57:54
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Manu’ :
I was like that. I healed that part in me by understanding you need to let people go, if that’s what they want. And that people play roles in your life. Some temporary, some touch your heart forever and there’s no going back. Sometimes it’s pain, sometimes, it’s happiness. In the end everybody leaves - children, spouses, lovers, friends, parents - through death or willingly. What you do with you, in the time and space between people, grief and connections, it’s what really matters. And that’s where you find the healing and acceptance you can’t control others reactions, feelings or triggers. We all love different. 💛
2025-07-24 21:16:18
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Professor Pippy P. poopypants :
Good 👍👍
2025-09-09 16:31:53
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Ogemdi Nkosinathi 🇳🇬🇿🇦 :
okay, what if they actually were too much? never comfort people who use their past as an excuse to hurt u.....u will lose yourself trying to save em
2025-08-29 08:37:34
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