Babyyyy please start you a YouTube and spread this good word!!!!
2025-09-03 12:06:04
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Dannie :
most of us weren't raised by people who dated properly anyway. They lacked standards, boundaries and emotional +financial health...
2025-07-25 16:28:24
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Dreia :
I love these talks...I can't unsee the trump character 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
2025-07-24 21:11:36
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that1tosha :
🗣️Preach! Come to find out those ‘butterflies’ was your nervous system/gut/vibes telling you to RUN!!!
2025-07-24 21:33:04
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farrah 🧚🏾♂️ :
honestly our parents can’t teach us something they don’t even know themselves. I feel like the key to dating is self-love & self-respect, the higher you see yourself the higher your standards will be..therefore, you will choose better ppl in your life
2025-07-25 02:46:47
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at ur moms house :
“Focus on school and not boys” yk what fine
2025-07-25 21:35:53
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Toshi :
You are my favorite person on TikTok 🥰
2025-08-21 12:39:36
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Elle :
Yeah I love my parents but I was not taught how to date. Was literally told to stay away from boys and focus on my education
2025-07-25 02:28:56
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Mena :
I never learned how to date. My mom only focused on good looks. I grew up in an abusive household. I never saw my mom be properly loved by a man. My father also neglected me. When I finally started dealing with men at 19 years old, I was completely lost. I was the “good girl”. I didn’t go on my first date until I was like 24. I’m 34 now and a single mother of an 11-year-old son and never had a real relationship with a man.
2025-07-26 05:10:36
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Shay Gammage :
you need a podcast i love your videos 💖
2025-07-24 21:08:17
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tifap5 :
Hell im winging it tbh
2025-07-25 04:05:02
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HOUSE OF TRESS :
My mother was crazy strict because she assumed I would do what she did!! I did everything opposite! My grandmother though…..I thank God she was always so perfect in schooling me the right way!! Therapy, narcissism & trauma bonding are all fairly new terms in relational experiences. She always told me to have my own and make my own way!!
2025-07-31 18:11:54
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Kenyattabgone :
Part three? I feel like this could be a whole podcast series! This was awesome...
2025-07-25 00:17:11
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80sflow :
Oh You’re therapisting us! Yes I want this info!
2025-07-24 22:47:38
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Valkyrie1982 :
That’s the truth! 👏👏👏
2025-08-15 14:15:16
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concretehomestead :
I had no guidance at all. The rule was basically, stay away from boys. The male attention started when I was very young, and not just from boys, but grown men. I was terrified. And I was ridiculed and shamed for it. And then I was looking for someone to save me from that. Then I flipped it and became a man eater. Being really mean, but getting close to No one. I chose my husband and I’m happy, but still learning how to operate in a relationship. I love your content…boffum…bigly 🫶🏽
2025-07-25 04:34:00
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I am World traveler :
Your room is beautiful
2025-07-25 16:09:17
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fridanom1 :
Black girls aren’t taught because black boys aren’t either. Slavery did a number on us. We literally only were able to legally marry the past few generations so courtship and marriage hasn’t been an established cultural norm for us sadly.
2025-07-25 20:06:55
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Yes That T. :
Any book suggestions on human behavior
2025-09-05 13:20:31
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KeyNicole 💋 :
I just said this, we don’t teach how to Date.
2025-07-29 02:05:38
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kourtniward83Leo ♌️Ⓜ️ :
I had a guy tell me literally because he didn’t have a mother her wanted me to be his mother 👀 say what?!?! Click BOOM 💥
2025-08-20 14:10:23
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erika.L007 :
Wait… this is my first video I’ve seen of you not imitating DT. I was so confused, like… is that “the blacks” 🤣🤣 I had to go to your page and check.
2025-07-25 17:09:57
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Mimi :
Black women are just learning what we deserve!!!! We don’t have to put up with a man’s BS!!! I can’t believe that our mothers, grandmothers and aunts didn’t have knowledge about men! They did! Why couldn’t they tell us? They could have just shared their experiences! That could have saved some of us
2025-07-25 04:06:59
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