the key is to decenter men... women shouldn't have to bend themselves into pleasing men. ladies focus on living your life, men need to be doing the work.. we decide who we want in our lives not the other way around
2025-07-26 10:23:06
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Marta Fischer :
How do i softly ask him to pay the restaurant bill
2025-07-26 12:22:28
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Countess :
Did all this and still no. At this point, I think we need to teach THEM how to treat us.
2025-07-25 18:29:00
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jilly.lifts :
Did this with the last guy. Thought things were going well for 3 months then his energy changed so I ended it 🤷🏽♀️
2025-07-25 23:05:36
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cecredk🪷 :
met the right guy and he brought all of this out of me!
2025-07-27 18:58:35
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DejoSR22 :
I was all of this and he ran
2025-07-29 04:10:21
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Kahea@kahea :
Aloha , wow you made me realize alot
2025-07-26 01:37:03
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🪼 :
awh i have all- tiktok really makes me start to think im near perfect as a future wife
2025-08-28 16:02:33
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julia_n_paris :
These are gold ✨ I’m still on that phase when I know my worth but still want to demand from men to see that too, rather than just keeeping it relaxed and cool
2025-09-15 18:52:51
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bipp :
you have the best messages
2025-07-28 02:58:36
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romeoandjuciet :
A friend of mine is a chaser and even as a woman I have found it unappealing. It makes me value her less and I feel myself pulling back. It has really helped me understand men’s mindset.
2025-08-25 12:06:16
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Shelby :
Do you have recommendations or podcasts where one can practice living more embodied?? Asking for an overthinker 🙋🏼♀
2025-09-12 02:35:29
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Nicolesietsema :
I looooove how healthy your advice is!!!! So good 🌸
2025-07-26 09:06:14
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NilaStark :
As a woman we are just too tired to care. Just be yourselves 🥰
2025-09-05 01:01:58
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Chido✨ :
This is great advice.
2025-09-11 20:56:50
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Victoria 🇨🇦 :
terrific page and advice. thank you for sharing your beautiful self. ❤️
2025-07-25 21:17:30
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Marilee.gy :
I used to want to him to want me and change him into the guy I like. It's not about him. It's aligning with someone that's fits for me.
2025-08-25 20:21:21
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Janet mourad :
Love this
2025-07-25 23:00:46
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Ekenna CBT therapist :
thank you for sharing this...I do feel great now after lots of learning
2025-07-27 22:34:16
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Tammy :
Great words thank you for helping us to stay in our lane 💜
2025-07-25 21:16:28
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Masi :
thank you so much for all that you share. you are so helpful and i’m studying your work to help me as i navigate this new slow burn union.
2025-07-25 18:57:13
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Silvia Rubio :
i just found you AND i really love your content is the kind of info i want to know AND implement in muy life.
2025-07-25 20:48:23
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Sammy Jo :
No I don't know that man but I definitely want to meet him.
2025-07-27 17:29:35
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Desiree Morales :
I think it is very important that we take care of ourselves. Include them in plans but if they dont join you still go even by yourself. Be appreciative of whatever they do even with small things like spending time together specially if your men is a hard working person.
2025-08-07 00:07:39
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lisa_bearden :
Yeah, I tried all of that with my ex. He just wanted me to do all the planning so that he could be relaxed. Hence the ex part.😁
2025-07-26 22:00:19
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