@mackenzieherman: Chasing them won’t bring them closer. It just confirms exactly what they’re afraid of: losing themselves in someone else. Let them come to you when they feel safe again. #attachmentstyles #avoidantpartner #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachment #HealingJourney #avoidantattachment #relationshiphealing #dontchase #attachmenttrauma #pushpulldynamic #nervoussystemhealing #emotionallyunavailable #avoidanttiktok #healinganxiousattachment #selfsoothing #knowyourpatterns #attachmentstyleawareness #relationshipeducation #stayregulated #innerchildhealing #healingavoidantwounds #coachingtiktok #secureattachmentpath #mentalhealthreels #anxioushealing
Avoidants make no sense. They’d rather run to someone else instead of fixing things with the person that loves them
2025-07-26 15:39:40
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She'slivingthelife :
Avoidants should date their fellow Avoidants. It's funny how they always end up dating people with an anxious attachment style, draining them 😑
2025-07-29 11:16:38
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Toni888 :
They just want total control
2025-07-27 11:59:39
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norei :
just walk away, that's the only reasonable option
2025-07-26 18:25:13
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Mobsy🎀 :
Avoidants. worst set of people walking on the surface of the earth after the Narcissist 💯
2025-07-27 20:12:50
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🦇🖤🥀saraswati81🥀🖤🦇 :
Cute. The silent treatment is unsafe, too.
2025-07-26 15:59:07
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Miranda :
Yes. Leave them and forget they exist
2025-07-28 00:40:16
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MoonlightNit3 :
Can avoidants just leave us alone tho… its some kind of mindgames to me… its a cycle of hurtful moments tryna make it work 💀
2025-07-27 10:43:11
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athenanova1 :
Don’t do it. It’s a never ending cycle. You will never win. Do them and mostly yourself a favour and leave.
2025-07-27 11:16:25
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starbloomhealingLLC :
You cannot win with a true avoidant. They have to do their inner work plain and simple. You will always experience dis-regulation because it’s not normal to have such a major lack of connection.
2025-07-27 21:42:11
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andreea_pascu_ :
nobody turns avoidant because they’ve been treated too good in life. that’s valid. but at the end of the day, it’s up to you if the trauma turns you into a complete selfish monster or not.
2025-07-27 01:20:56
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Poison Pixie :
This time I've left. I've had enough of them being a child.
2025-07-27 16:48:18
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Diego :
Don’t ever get yourself involved with an avoidant. Run while u still can
2025-07-28 02:49:29
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kihyunschicken :
tips how to deal with an avoidant: avoid them. period
2025-07-31 00:15:55
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D2D :
just leave them. it’s too much.
2025-09-07 21:05:28
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Derek :
Avoidants are damaging.
2025-09-07 18:42:28
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banks_ashley33 :
No theyre abusive and want everything on their terms. NEXT!
2025-09-09 21:31:18
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KresMortel16 :
Whos got time for this!!?? Letting them run all over ur feelings, but gotta tip toe around theirs...
2025-07-31 22:57:49
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larrytift228 :
so a better way to stop chasing is to break up with them. block them on all platforms including your phone. And go find somebody new that is not an avoidant. just saying
2025-08-01 19:56:04
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FirePhoenixRising79 :
Your videos are helping me tremendously. They are keeping me from reaching out to someone who is an avoidant. Thank you from the bottom of my heart truly.
2025-07-26 20:24:55
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Gayelynn Hunter :
I so over it I don't play games
2025-07-27 11:43:48
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Niamh💫 :
What if at the start they were chasing you, made promises, you then let your guard down and now they are pushing away
2025-07-29 18:46:29
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Derek :
No way. How much longer do we need to sit in silence? Mine has ignored me for 11 days and today is my birthday. No clarity provided and no nothing.
2025-09-07 18:42:14
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kajaalunaa :
actually DO chase them! easiest way to get rid of them and find someone actually available🙂
2025-07-28 14:29:07
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Jebiga :
Thanks but No thanks those kind of people are the ones that’ll wake up one day and disappear out of nowhere because they feel trapped. Never trust them…
2025-07-31 11:25:33
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