@mackenzieherman: Chasing them won’t bring them closer. It just confirms exactly what they’re afraid of: losing themselves in someone else. Let them come to you when they feel safe again. #attachmentstyles #avoidantpartner #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachment #HealingJourney #avoidantattachment #relationshiphealing #dontchase #attachmenttrauma #pushpulldynamic #nervoussystemhealing #emotionallyunavailable #avoidanttiktok #healinganxiousattachment #selfsoothing #knowyourpatterns #attachmentstyleawareness #relationshipeducation #stayregulated #innerchildhealing #healingavoidantwounds #coachingtiktok #secureattachmentpath #mentalhealthreels #anxioushealing

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user700711111
user7000 :
Avoidants make no sense. They’d rather run to someone else instead of fixing things with the person that loves them
2025-07-26 15:39:40
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sheslivingthelife
She'slivingthelife :
Avoidants should date their fellow Avoidants. It's funny how they always end up dating people with an anxious attachment style, draining them 😑
2025-07-29 11:16:38
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tontoandmike
Toni888 :
They just want total control
2025-07-27 11:59:39
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noreeaga
norei :
just walk away, that's the only reasonable option
2025-07-26 18:25:13
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mobolao
Mobsy🎀 :
Avoidants. worst set of people walking on the surface of the earth after the Narcissist 💯
2025-07-27 20:12:50
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_saraswati81_
🦇🖤🥀saraswati81🥀🖤🦇 :
Cute. The silent treatment is unsafe, too.
2025-07-26 15:59:07
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miranda__1234
Miranda :
Yes. Leave them and forget they exist
2025-07-28 00:40:16
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moonlightnit3
MoonlightNit3 :
Can avoidants just leave us alone tho… its some kind of mindgames to me… its a cycle of hurtful moments tryna make it work 💀
2025-07-27 10:43:11
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athenanova1
athenanova1 :
Don’t do it. It’s a never ending cycle. You will never win. Do them and mostly yourself a favour and leave.
2025-07-27 11:16:25
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starbloomhealingllc
starbloomhealingLLC :
You cannot win with a true avoidant. They have to do their inner work plain and simple. You will always experience dis-regulation because it’s not normal to have such a major lack of connection.
2025-07-27 21:42:11
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andreea_pascu_
andreea_pascu_ :
nobody turns avoidant because they’ve been treated too good in life. that’s valid. but at the end of the day, it’s up to you if the trauma turns you into a complete selfish monster or not.
2025-07-27 01:20:56
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poisonpixie
Poison Pixie :
This time I've left. I've had enough of them being a child.
2025-07-27 16:48:18
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dievo88
Diego :
Don’t ever get yourself involved with an avoidant. Run while u still can
2025-07-28 02:49:29
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kihyunschicken
kihyunschicken :
tips how to deal with an avoidant: avoid them. period
2025-07-31 00:15:55
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majesticallyopened
D2D :
just leave them. it’s too much.
2025-09-07 21:05:28
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derekjones299
Derek :
Avoidants are damaging.
2025-09-07 18:42:28
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banks_ashley33
banks_ashley33 :
No theyre abusive and want everything on their terms. NEXT!
2025-09-09 21:31:18
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kresmortel
KresMortel16 :
Whos got time for this!!?? Letting them run all over ur feelings, but gotta tip toe around theirs...
2025-07-31 22:57:49
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larrytift228
larrytift228 :
so a better way to stop chasing is to break up with them. block them on all platforms including your phone. And go find somebody new that is not an avoidant. just saying
2025-08-01 19:56:04
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firephoenixrising79
FirePhoenixRising79 :
Your videos are helping me tremendously. They are keeping me from reaching out to someone who is an avoidant. Thank you from the bottom of my heart truly.
2025-07-26 20:24:55
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gayelynn.hunter
Gayelynn Hunter :
I so over it I don't play games
2025-07-27 11:43:48
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niamhhaugh123
Niamh💫 :
What if at the start they were chasing you, made promises, you then let your guard down and now they are pushing away
2025-07-29 18:46:29
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derekjones299
Derek :
No way. How much longer do we need to sit in silence? Mine has ignored me for 11 days and today is my birthday. No clarity provided and no nothing.
2025-09-07 18:42:14
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kajaalunaa
kajaalunaa :
actually DO chase them! easiest way to get rid of them and find someone actually available🙂
2025-07-28 14:29:07
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user590681769
Jebiga :
Thanks but No thanks those kind of people are the ones that’ll wake up one day and disappear out of nowhere because they feel trapped. Never trust them…
2025-07-31 11:25:33
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