@victoriaperciballi: Replying to @israelsen.danielle don’t be a bad or cheap host and expect your guests to spend $$$$$ !!!! #fyp #forthegirls #wedding #weddingtiktok #weddingday #weddingtok #weddingprep #weddingplanning #weddingvibes #weddinginspo #blacktie #blacktiewedding #blacktieevent #weddings
This is why I’m having trouble deciding what to put on my invites for the dress code 😭I don’t want our guests in jeans/sundresses nor formal evening gowns so is black tie optional the best choice?
2025-07-30 00:34:43
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maddietaferner :
What is the budget for black tie optional💔
2025-08-24 22:33:57
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francesca :
thissss. i went a black tie dress code and was shocked to find out i had to stand in a buffet line in my long gown and heels and only one bar for 300 people. a formal dress code would’ve been more appropriate
2025-07-29 16:08:07
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Stella :
I’m convinced people don’t know what black tie is
2025-08-17 02:52:37
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Ken🖤 :
but why are they so expensive though?
2025-07-28 21:47:17
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Jocosmo :
I host black tie events for work. The budgets usually START at $800k …. You’re so right!
2025-07-30 13:28:58
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Ari G :
People HATE that words have meaning
2025-10-17 14:11:58
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user489385217905 :
literally saw a tiktok the other day of a girl planning a black tie wedding and for food she’s doing 3 hors d’oeuvres and pasta for dinner 😭 like girl
2025-07-29 13:47:41
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ayaniduffey24 :
Not gonna lie I definitely did not know there was a difference between black tie and a formal but now I feel like I need to go to a black tie event
2025-07-29 01:31:54
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kara vinson :
A tux costs $200 to rent… a black tie dress is $100-$200 at the least.
2025-07-29 17:14:54
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Kold Sav :
My wedding dress code is black but I’m not doing black tie bc i can’t afford a black tie wedding
2025-08-03 15:11:13
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💕 :
Exactlyyyy dresses and gowns are different!!!
2025-08-07 01:59:51
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Brianna⚡️ :
It’s so strange to me for people to ask for a dress code that doesn’t fit the venue and vibe of the wedding. I’m having a wedding at a formal venue. I’m requesting a formal dress code. It’s not that hard!
2025-08-12 16:49:50
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What The Chelly 💋 :
People also need to realize there are options between black tie and completely casual. Just because you aren't requiring your guests to show up on black tie doesn't mean they get to wear jeans and flip flops. People can still be dressy without spending hundreds of dollars.
2025-07-30 12:20:00
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amanda.lee.g91 :
I feel like you can get a reasonably priced beautiful gown & tux these days too! Gotta know how to shop!
2025-07-29 00:57:19
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Erika Skelton :
I agree with you.
2025-07-28 22:11:39
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Ken🖤 :
jk i chat gpt’d it
2025-07-28 21:48:03
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monique :
something someone had said to me as advice when planning a wedding that has always stuck with me is “you can’t have a black tie event if you aren’t providing a black tie experience for your guests”
2025-09-24 18:14:55
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sydneyc0516 :
Exactly!
2025-07-29 15:59:42
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Roselite Event Planning :
100% agree!!
2025-09-20 20:52:46
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Cathexis :
indeed
2025-08-18 09:28:27
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Jenna :
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 black tie and formal are not the same thing - please say it louder for most my guests!!! 🫠🫠🫠🫠
2025-09-24 05:32:08
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Erica 🦒🤗 :
I saw a video where someone said the bride and groom decided to have it at an expensive place. They said they give $25-$50 as a gift. I always match what the price of the plate is per person.
2025-08-10 23:55:27
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leena :
agree! im afghan and our weddings are pretty extravagant but not exactly black tie! almost all the guests naturally dress in black tie & there's always a live singer or band but we do buffet dinners. usually people closest to the couple dress in black tie while those that are distant opt for something less flashy
2025-08-02 05:41:24
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