@thechrishinton: This is the real reason you suffer. Not because of what happened— but because it didn’t go your way. And you didn’t know how to handle it. If you don’t learn to discipline your disappointments, you will sabotage every relationship you touch— especially the one with yourself. Watch this all the way through. Then tell me in the comments: What expectation has been robbing you of your peace? My book Who’s Talking is on Amazon + Audible now. For coaching or live meetups → [email protected] 🚨 Don’t message me on TikTok—too many scammers out there. #emotionalintelligence #relationshipadvice #HealingJourney #selfleadership #spiritualawakening #traumarecovery #mentalhealthmatters #innerpeace #emotionalregulation #boundaries #surrender #selfawareness #expectations #marriageadvice #anxiousattachment #whostalking #tiktoktherapist #covertcontracts #mindfulness #theobserver #relationshipgoals
“If your peace depends on outcomes, that’s not peace, it’s a performance.”
2025-07-29 11:39:52
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RyCo :
“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
2025-07-31 12:20:41
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Palmettotok :
Simply lower expectations! 👏👏👏 Let things fall where they may!
2025-07-28 23:25:23
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T-Mack♾️🖤☯️♏️ :
Allow ppl to disappoint you see who they are not who you want them to be
2025-07-29 00:00:40
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uncapped potential :
reminds me of the idea of... how can someone hurt my feelings if my feelings come from me
2025-08-04 06:48:20
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Nannytammy :
Found my peace and independence thru faith
2025-07-29 14:43:06
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Jacque Mieoph :
Jesus Christ is peace 🥰
2025-07-31 17:22:50
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rhealtrice :
Allow people to be themselves so you see what they would rather be
2025-07-29 10:49:57
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Etta Floyd671 :
Acceptance is the key to stop suffering
2025-09-14 14:43:06
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lip_b4_u_rip :
My peace used to depend on my partner seeing and hearing me. Also with my partner responding to me quickly when I reached out. I realize now that my peace doesn’t depend on any of that.
2025-08-26 20:07:07
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Tshepo🧸 :
“Allow life to unfold without needing it to match your preference” 🥶
2025-08-04 19:57:37
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Sarah Smith :
Damn..gotta call me out first thing on a Tuesday morning?
2025-07-29 13:26:39
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Rizzla :
wanting things to be my way, robs me of my peace of mind
2025-07-30 19:21:26
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MB :
I needed to hear this right now. I am guilty of this. 💯 just trying to get better at recognizing it in the moment and chose a different path instead of getting caught up in emotion.
2025-07-31 03:37:33
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Oluseyi-Solomon :
This should be approached as a strategy to lifelong success and not just about marriage.
2025-08-19 11:16:39
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Chat Métisse Là :
Damn this is Tom Hanks if he stayed longer on that island in cast away
2025-07-31 12:01:41
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user8875302843400 :
I had to learn that my happiness did not rely on him
2025-07-31 04:08:10
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the_ardra_edit :
You may have saved the rest of my life. This is more than gold. ✨
2025-08-09 18:10:30
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Foxxyroxxy :
I had to listen this twice. This is so good and helpful.
2025-07-29 00:43:51
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Teefah John :
Sir, the way you gathered me up!!!!! I really needed this!!
2025-08-04 19:08:30
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user575959 :
There's this girl that I've recently expressed wanting to date, and she said she wanted to try too. But she has an avoidance issue. Her fears of disappointing and disappointment, cause her to go silent because her brain has told her that is peace, when in reality, it does more harm than anything. The best thing for me to do now is to address everything from a non judgmental place, and remove some of the power those fears hold by having them said out loud. Wish me luck!
2025-07-31 05:23:00
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Jules73♍️ :
Holy cow this hit home. I did this in my last relationship. WOW
2025-07-31 19:50:43
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maddiesmomma47 :
Trying to control everything . Especially in my marriage.
2025-07-29 01:52:42
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Rene Lopez Duran :
I needed to hear this right now!!
2025-07-30 03:35:04
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