@llove_lola27: I was planning a dream trip to Europe… he was planning to take care of his dying mom. Now he’s mad I didn’t drop everything to help. Am I heartless or just passport focused? ✈️💔 #AITAH #ToxicLove #FamilyDrama #TravelVsTrauma #WithLoveLola #YouDecide

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jo_jo_916
Jo Jo :
Even if she isn’t faking, that’s his mother and her going to see her family doesn’t make her selfish. None of us are promised tomorrow so she shouldn’t put of seeing her family to wait this out for who knows how long.
2025-07-30 04:00:49
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mommagreywolf1992
MommaGreywolf1992 :
There's a part two to this btw.
2025-07-30 12:43:17
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luminelul
Gabriela :
Poor OP. He called her selfish after she's sacrificing so much of her time, energy and life for HIS mother!
2025-07-30 08:35:25
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it_ash_
Its_Ash :
“Would you if your mom was sick” be honest and say “if my mom told me she were sick, she’d actually be sick”
2025-09-01 00:00:50
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mamabearnc
MamabearNC :
Don’t spend another minute helping until bf and husband have a meeting with her Dr.
2025-07-30 15:29:31
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mixchick1020
Mixchick1020 :
I’m sorry even if Tanya was sick why would she be selfish for going to visit her own mother that she hasn’t seen in over a year? Liam would be there with David to take care of his mom! NTA she isn’t selfish for visiting her mom either way
2025-07-30 04:51:33
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mbutterfield00
campo_de_mantequilla :
He wants you to neglect your mom for his? Like… bfr
2025-07-30 06:32:22
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nvmnvmnvmnvmnvmnvmm
Nvnvmnvm :
I don’t think OP is the ah either. I know she there’s no solid proof her mil is lying, but how could her man expect her to not see her own mother. He then has the audacity to give her a “what if” scenario about himself?? So not the same. He’s weird
2025-07-30 04:23:33
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shortcakemel
shortcakemel :
Forget this, there is no way she is actually sick…I’d go to Europe
2025-07-30 03:49:04
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ilka.wffy
ilka :
theyre all expecting way toooo much of op. yes, she's the gf but shes not the wife, she's not family
2025-07-30 05:05:29
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lujlisa
Lisa Lujan891 :
NTA
2025-08-13 01:57:21
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patriciayoung206
Patricia Young :
Be a good person and learn whatever lessons she is teaching you
2025-08-03 05:41:56
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foreverashx3
Ashley Torres :
I would've said your mother is NOT MY MOM I'm leaving to go see MY MOM though bye ✌🏽
2025-07-30 09:52:01
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angellgauna
angellgauna :
I would never put off seeing my mother, especially if it’s unclear if the mother is really sick or just making it up to keep the son’s attention. He’s a grown man and able to stick around for HIS mom. While you visit your mother in Europe.
2025-08-04 20:54:26
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nicholescookingwithstyle
Nichole Ayling :
Why is he allowed to doat on his mother and waste her time and she can’t even go visit hers?
2025-07-30 17:31:17
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ms.mollymetz
ms.mollymetz :
having cancer myself , chemo is rarely post poned
2025-08-07 23:00:17
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unionthuggery
UnionThuggery :
He's expecting wifely duties from a girlfriend. She needs to set down boundaries now before this gets worse.
2025-07-30 16:10:12
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renlynnjo
S J :
Him comparing HIMSELF dying and her caring for him to his mom fake-dying is totally unfair. Set boundaries. If she wants them to continue to disrupt their lives like this, then they need to be provided solid medical evidence of her ailments. If the bf can’t have her back on this, then he’s not the one.
2025-08-04 07:18:47
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queezeeintheatx
Quee Zee :
Nope
2025-07-31 02:38:41
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loveyjeff
Lovey the Nurse :
Even if she is sick, OP can go see her mom whom she hasn’t seen in a year
2025-07-30 11:21:42
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dollybear37
Dolly1773 :
No, going to see your mom is not selfish absolutely not. And the boyfriend should understand as well…..
2025-08-01 19:11:50
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realibebugging
Laurbebuggingback :
Choosing to join this family is a choice
2025-07-31 14:43:27
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jaylynn.pope
JayLynn P. :
The key detail tho, that’s not even her MIL. There is no familial obligation to help her. And she’s been nothing but rude the whole time while controdicting herself. NTA, if OP wants to stay in the relationship, stay for 1 appointment. Don’t let her send op away. Stick around and actually SEE what the heck is happening
2025-07-30 15:55:10
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crystal20716
Cri🇲🇽🇺🇸 :
Not married and she helping take her of his mom and she is self for wanting to see her mom. Red flag for him
2025-08-01 14:49:25
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gigithekitty
Gigi :
Sounds like my mother in law
2025-07-30 19:49:55
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