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hariicos :
i think a lot of stereotypical masculinity is performative tbh
2025-07-30 17:22:53
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Alienòr d'Aquitània :
Matriarchy is in our DNA. Men only fear it because they assume it would mirror patriarchy.
2025-07-30 18:03:09
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eunectes𓆙 :
i literally thought i was a lesbian for 3 years bc i thought that as a girl i was meant to like stereotypical masculinity
2025-07-30 17:25:23
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ToddomousIndodomous🧿 :
The most successful societies are matriarchal.
2025-07-30 18:56:55
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°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･ᓚ₍⑅^..^₎♡ :
I feel the opposite but I crave HEALTHY masculinity. The protective, safe, stillness. Could be life changing for an autistic woman if it’s healthy 😭
2025-07-31 21:04:46
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Mnicha :
i just like men who aren't afraid to feel. i don't care about looks but if you're going to only let anger out yet never cry cuz its "not manly" then I see that as childish and just offputting. i need someone who can communicate their feelings to me, not hide them cuz they make them look weak
2025-08-01 06:09:15
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User3839292 :
Nah I like a gruff “masculine” man. It’s the ones who aren’t embodied in their masculinity and don’t let themselves feel (most of them) that are immediate icks
2025-07-31 06:13:40
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it IS inauthentic and off-putting (cause it's inauthentic 😂). I think the inauthenticity is caused by learned behavior, social normal and cultural influences. also goes the other way i think (autistic men liking women who don't act or look like super stereotypical women that much, like, I do)
2025-07-30 18:55:34
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finglovegoguma :
it's me 🙋♀️hubby is gentle, clean, kind, and has a higher pitched voice (likely also AuDHD)
2025-07-30 22:55:44
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Not really..I really have a thing for muscular men with angry face and a soft heart.
2025-07-30 17:58:32
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stillanthony :
As an AuDHD myself I’ve never felt at home performing masculinity in the sterotypical way and have always felt truly seen by women who are also AuDHD. Sucks that it’s often hard for us all to find each other
2025-08-01 23:37:04
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LivAlive🏳️⚧️ :
stereotypical masculinity also feels unsafe and dangerous
2025-08-04 04:08:27
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Velveteen :
So it stems from my autism??? Now it makes sense 😭
2025-07-31 07:11:34
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L :
as an autistic man it feels that way for us too 👍
2025-08-07 06:21:33
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Jaylen 👼🏽 :
Not even just for autistic women, women that are noble and actually knows what they want. Won’t settle for anything that feels inauthentic
2025-08-05 02:37:43
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Ishe isshe ishim :
I'm a femboy one of my best friends is autistic. she is similar like that too.
2025-07-30 18:42:56
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zyokio :
i thought feminine men was like psychologically studied to be more attractive, masculine features in women and feminine features in men
2025-08-12 16:15:30
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SilliestMeow2.0 :
i think its cause autistic people have been seen to care less about gendered norms. This has even influenced how voices develop for both genders (autistic men having higher pitched voices than other men and autistic women having lower pitched voices compared to other women)
2025-08-01 02:35:16
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Shawxxxxxxxx :
Still looking for my autistic gf
2025-07-30 21:08:17
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mysticalambitions :
I’m gay and feel the same. I’m queer for queer
2025-07-31 17:13:53
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industrial_accident_fox :
honestly i didnt wanna be like my classmates and father tbh, like i dont want to be "tough" just because life wants me to be tough. i wanna paint my nails and wear pastel colors and type like this :3
2025-07-31 21:36:25
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thebestfakeaccount :
It’s cause it’s performative a lot of the time
2025-07-31 06:47:33
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Gary_Justin_UK :
As a guy that prefers female friends, I seek realised I seek out friends who normally more like myself as well, Not a fan of masculinity at all.
2025-08-06 17:18:25
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Kwis Thunder :
Because it is inauthentic men being themselves is shamed by society
2025-08-12 17:57:07
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julian mcconnell :
and autistic men tend to go for ladies with masulin traits because they are open to communicating there needs rather than expecting us to know (when we simply dont)
2025-07-31 06:19:51
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