@travisambrosecoach: You broke up and miss them now 🫠 But did you really want them when you had them? Or were you overwhelmed, irritated, emotionally unavailable, and always half out the door? It’s easy to idealize the past when the discomfort of the present kicks in 🫣 When your nervous system finally settles, the relationship starts to look better than it was. You forget the shutdowns. The arguments. The resentment you never voiced. Missing them doesn’t always mean you’re meant to be with them. Sometimes it means you’re ready to face what you ran from. And that doesn’t necessarily have to be done with them in order for you to change. Before you reach back out, ask yourself 👇 Are you chasing them? Or chasing relief? Because if you don’t build the capacity to stay present through the hard stuff… you’ll keep repeating the same cycle, no matter who you’re with 🔄 And better to save your ex from the pain of a reach out that is rooted in fear and lacking intention. Ready to break the spiral and get to the root? Schedule a session with me (link in bio) ✨ . . . . . #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #breakups #breakup #relationships #relationshiptiktok
My ex is in therapy (has been for 4 months), last two stopped filling the gap and pain, sat with discomfort. Came back and I said idt you’re going to like all my needs to try again - individal therapy, couples therapy, and 1-2 dates a week living separate. Is that good? He agreed no problem wasn’t defensive even when I said he’s the one interviewing for the job definitely scared but willing to try and coming back with a plan when we talk next bc I said I’m not doing the emotional labor and he also understood why I would be anxious because I didn’t get the validation and didn’t feel safe and secure in our relationship.
2025-07-31 23:42:38
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larag.pb :
his fyp
2025-09-10 02:33:27
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mamamushu27 :
Can you appear on his fyp on insta please? 💀
2025-07-31 07:33:00
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Alexis :
I wonder if this is me or him oh well
2025-07-30 20:36:43
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💚Fuyu🦆 :
Her fyp not mine
2025-09-03 16:54:22
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Gareth :
HIS FYP NOT MINE!!!
2025-07-31 03:05:44
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Akira :
wrong fyp, put this on his fyp
2025-09-21 12:59:19
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AMK :
what happens when the avoidant is the one that gets dumped?
2025-08-01 04:12:27
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emiipony :
her fyp
2025-09-06 14:01:59
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eamgang :
HIS NOT MINE
2025-08-02 09:57:46
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Gubben I Lådan :
but she's already in a relationship for almost 2 years and I'm still single
2025-07-31 07:01:13
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503PDX♊️ :
Good lord these are way too accurate
2025-07-31 04:29:20
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Gail :
wooowwwwwww
2025-08-01 05:41:38
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Airplane✈️ :
You can get your anxious Partner back if you actually try to work on yourself and take it slow. And if you actually dont lie and accept that you have to read abt your attachment issues, that you have to stop trying to "fix" everything
2025-07-31 19:35:28
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miss_amandab :
That’s not just avoidants.. that’s self doubt and every single person thinks like that after a breakup. Leave us avoidants alone. We are avoiding the wrong ones 😉
2025-07-31 09:59:16
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HomeContesta.com :
Don't take them back!! The relationship is over .. this means stop living your life through your ex... ex= Exit.. their NO means.. Next Opportunity 😊
2025-08-01 08:33:07
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wizard404 :
ugh this is me
2025-07-31 20:55:37
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yohan༒ :
i think i’ve been a avoidant in my relationship and i actively trying to heal when i lost her, im going to therapy and lately (it’s been a month and a half since the breakup) i really wanted to present to her my deepest apologies for my behavior and i reflected a lot on it i’ve identified the toxic habits i had that hurted her. i want also to tell her that im really trying to make this change because i realized the value of this relationship and how she only wanted good for me, it actually bring me growth and so i knew that it was something real and worth the change and effort. i know that it won’t be easy or guaranteed to have forgiveness, but she really means a lot and worth every bit of effort, i really want to break the cycle and make this for her but im kinda scared that she’ll feel suffocation by my attempts of communication do you have any advices ?
2025-09-08 14:45:29
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ᨰׁׅꪱׁׅᥣׁׅ֪ժׁׅ݊ :
Never ever🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
2025-07-31 01:19:08
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