Thought Knots
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Fifiana :
My rule of thumb is that if you are stating factual information, it is not gossip. If you are intentionally skewing information to make one party look good and another bad, it’s gossip. Journalism vs libel
2025-07-31 01:05:02
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🎃Lil Goblin🎃 :
It’s not gossip if it’s fact or discussing an issue. Defamation and truth telling are not the same thing and people need to stop labeling things as gossip just because they don’t like what’s being said
2025-07-31 08:22:37
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kaitlyn ♡ :
THISSSS.
2025-08-31 19:14:44
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Dani :
Defining gossip vs accountability 🩷
2025-07-31 00:26:17
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The Laurax :
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the demonization of gossip and this definitely added some fuel to the thought fire, if you will, great points, I always love your skits!
2025-07-31 00:25:19
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Gina Marie :
Ok but did you also say something TO Jesse? That’s the key to me. I think to hold someone accountable you need to be conversing with them. If they are friends it’s also being a good friend to talk to them. Right?
2025-08-01 11:58:43
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Fish :
Talking about something I experienced will never be gossip. Talking to someone else about something a 3rd person experienced with a 4th person /might/ be gossip, depending on context
2025-07-31 08:37:56
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LanderMe :
I agree about holding friends accountable, but how is talking about the event to someone who wasn’t there, “holding them accountable”? That would be speaking to them directly about their problematic behaviour, not telling others about it behind their back… if you think it’s problematic it’s highly unlikely your bias and judgement isn’t skewing your perception of events when you pass along the story.
2025-07-31 03:18:36
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The High Tygress :
"Wanna keep the peace, ya know. Better for the friend group" Girl, the way I cackled 😂
2025-07-31 23:15:39
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Athena :
this is why i have no friends anymore, its either this or an argument starts, and i have no patience for arguing with someone whos more concerned with arguing than communicating; on top of that its really hard to continue to hold myself accountable knowing that everyone is just secretly resenting me instead of just talking to me so i know what to be accountable about 😭
2025-07-31 06:06:57
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Tricky :
while I agree with the overall point of this skit, isn't part of calling-in someone talking to them instead of about them with other people?
2025-07-31 15:25:54
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Amethyst Rae :
God forbid we NOT avoid personal discomfort, especially when it ✨might✨ be tied to conflict
2025-07-31 01:13:25
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M. Eslick :
❤️❤️❤️brilliant! I always look forward to your posts
2025-07-30 23:57:37
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alicianetti :
THIS. thats how accountability works, amd growth happens. people need to find better NORMAL behavior
2025-07-31 01:09:55
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JodiH *OnCall Founder Support :
Wait. Isn’t the difference that accountability is when you talk TO the person about the behavior, not with another person. I think it’s fine to strategize and discern your thoughts and check for blind spots by speaking with another person, but that’s not calling in, or accountability, until you talk TO the person about it.
2025-08-01 14:00:33
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ishanatur :
Exactly! Who’s place is it to do it if not our friends.
2025-07-31 00:44:35
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Jo :
Is it really holding someone accountable though if you’re talking to everyone But the person involved? There’s a difference between calling someone in to their face and talking about what you think their flaws are behind their back
2025-07-31 03:41:33
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Deidra The Earth Witch :
The only person's peace it keeps, is the person doing the toxic behavior. 💛
2025-07-31 07:09:08
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morgan.scarbrough :
Some countries don’t have serial killers and it’s thought that it’s because the population stays so well informed through “gossip” that it’s virtually impossible for someone to go around killing people undetected
2025-07-31 18:57:26
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✨tricky✨ :
amen 🙏🏻 💜😂✊🏻
2025-07-31 12:08:35
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Syriah Ann Van :
I don’t say anything to anyone about anyone I wouldn’t say straight to their face. It’s the truth.
2025-07-31 05:27:25
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S :
Twenty years ago, I was friends with a group of girls. They stopped hanging out with me. After mentioning to one of them, she replied, “We never talked about kicking you out; it was never discussed,” as though that was justifying the behavior. In fact, it’s WORSE. We should be able to talk to, about, and with our friends in the name of improving the relationships. What could have been a constructive conversation never happened, and no one was better for it.
2025-07-31 03:15:51
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Jodie Elisha🏴 :
and this is why I went from being in a big group in school to two friends as an adult
2025-07-31 09:47:29
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Carmen :
If something happens at a "public" event or in a public place, and you're not hyperbolizing, then discussing it isn't "behind someone's back".
2025-07-31 23:40:17
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Tosh Mulligan :
I love the stuff you bring up.
2025-07-31 04:03:21
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