Quinlan Walther
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TuxPenguin :
But how? HOWWWW? How do I build that sense of self? I feel like I have no identity.
2025-08-01 06:09:33
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amandac2014 :
This is true , but how do we fix this
2025-07-31 14:49:31
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alexis :
I’m not sure about terrified, but certainly sad. For me, the sadness comes from feeling like I wasted the past two years of my life and time with her. I feel like all the effort, shared memories and things we did together ultimately amounted to nothing. Just us going separate ways.
2025-07-31 04:50:43
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SamanthaJ2344 :
Love your inner child too
2025-09-10 00:46:43
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user6719947101124 :
except I don't feel safe, and all this work I do leaves me in the same place: desperate for someone to want me, to protect me...
2025-07-31 06:54:47
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zopheeapp :
Every person with anxious attachment style should hear this!
2025-09-27 00:41:53
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morisoncorp :
I just feel abandoned when my partner abandons me. so it sounds like I'm good
2025-07-31 00:46:24
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Mackenzie :
Oh wait this is actually so good
2025-08-03 00:50:49
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Alyssa Rendon :
More on this codependency. I don’t understand how to fix this
2025-07-31 11:26:54
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Lsvtec :
no longer afraid 🙏🥰
2025-08-05 12:16:46
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💗🖤~~alicia~~🖤💗 :
Not sure of that’s always true! I’m terrified of being hurt. I’m ok on my own… I’m ok depending on myself and seek an interdependent relationship which I’ve found one… but I’ve worked too hard to find my peace and happiness … I don’t want to be left to work through another hurt
2025-07-31 01:06:32
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Gina Andreano205 :
What do you suggest to do to fill that void in ourselves? Can you do a video on a resolution to this attachment style?
2025-07-31 01:04:07
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Pertulaa✨🌸 :
I always wait for the part you clap😁
2025-08-13 22:47:06
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Arnaldo :
thanks for all
2025-07-31 00:27:49
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user10949720790546 :
easier said than done...this isn't chatgpt scripts or monopoly games. 😂
2025-08-13 10:14:27
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Socrates on a lotus :
I had tears of sorrow watching this! Being diagnosed with ADHD with rejection sensitivity dysphoria at the age of 50. I slowly lost myself though out my 11 year marriage. I became dependent on my marriage to define my identity my safety. I was/am a people pleaser. Didn’t take time for me, to feed the soul. I have been feeling the sense of abandonment after my wife told me she wanted a divorce. My soul was destroyed. I now see how a have an attachment wound caused by the loss of my sense of self. I let that happen, my ADHD w/ RSD made it a perfect storm. I don’t say this as an excuse, but an enlightenment. TIME TO FILL THAT VOID! I got this!I was overwhelmed with sorrow watching this! At 50 years old, I was diagnosed with ADHD and rejection sensitivity dysphoria. Throughout my 11-year marriage, I gradually lost my sense of self. I became dependent on my marriage to define my identity and provide a sense of safety. As someone who tends to please others, I neglected to take time for myself and nurture my soul. After my wife expressed her desire for a divorce, I felt a profound sense of abandonment. My spirit was shattered. I now realize that I have an attachment wound stemming from the loss of my sense of self. I allowed this to happen, and my ADHD with RSD created a perfect storm. I share this not as an excuse, but as a moment of enlightenment. It’s time to fill that void! I’ve got this!
2025-08-14 05:52:06
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Matt R. :
Damn what kind of camera are you using?
2025-07-31 04:00:36
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J Reid :
a WORD!
2025-07-31 00:12:59
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Marko Sh :
why do your video's and topics come at the right time at this point in my life where im facing all this again because of recent changes going to happen in my life haha😂
2025-08-14 09:06:37
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infinity_hope :
Auw.. just opened TikTok this while waiting at a train station and now you made me cry… 🥺
2025-08-11 14:47:14
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Adri Ramírez :
You are increíble !!! Makes sense
2025-07-31 01:41:38
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Tess :
So it isn't BPD? I knew it 😂😭
2025-08-02 08:48:18
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Tiago :
I don’t think there is any way on how to do that…
2025-07-31 22:27:21
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