@martina.vee: Boundaries are absolutely necessary in a high conflict situation. The HCBM can’t show up at your home and cuss you out in your own driveway. There are children to protect. #stepmomsoftiktok #parallelparenting #hcbm #divorce
A lot of these “High conflict BM” is usually due to the man still messing with her.
2025-08-02 10:28:10
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Anna Taylor Stowe :
Your spouse should be the one handling the high conflict baby mama
2025-07-31 05:29:53
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D@M@KINGZOFSHERELLE :
Bio moms this what happens when bds give there share of the responsibility’s of the kids to there spouses and now they feel they have a say so get those parenting plans in order no 3rd party’s allowed and muzzle these spouses they play a major role and are the causes with the interference if why most coparenting has so much conflict they wanna be apart so dam bad
2025-09-02 21:52:50
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Penelope :
who's desperate for control here? 🤔
2025-08-02 09:47:43
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Honey Bee :
She doesn’t need a seat at your table. She owns her own.
2025-08-01 04:15:13
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Nostalgic_Gal :
If your childless please don't get involved with someone who has kids. I learned the hard way, abuse from the exwife, disrespect and unappreciation from the step kids, it ruined a big part of my life I can never get back
2025-08-02 04:40:24
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Crystal :
how do you go no contact with he shares children with her? 🤔
2025-07-31 13:45:20
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RobertPaulson :
As a step mom myself, You have no right to deny those chrildren access to their MOTHER. You are the worst kind of step mom there is if you do this! Be an adult and put your feelings aside and let those chrildren have a relationship with their mom!
2025-08-19 22:11:49
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Sam || Mama4 :
3 years no contact 🫶🏻 minus a few forced “thanks” for holding a door because I’m still polite lol
2025-08-01 16:12:19
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Lassleylife :
Yes!! It’s such a hard roll. Setting boundaries is the best thing you can do (HC people hate that)
2025-07-31 12:17:22
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Black_Stallion :
the father should always show up for the kids no matter what. you stay in your lane and be there for him. Just remember he maybe the reason for the toxic relationship. always 2 sides of the story.
2025-08-03 21:05:54
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_maincharacterxo :
I have scrict boundaries yet they dont get respected by her and kids get told to disrespect me when in my home. its so hard.
2025-08-13 23:46:53
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Renae :
Girl I pressed charges and went on about my life … paper trail
2025-08-15 10:14:00
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Mara :
I had to do this with my ex’s wife - so unfortunate. Because I have a great relationship with my current husband’s exwife and we co parent very well it’s so great for my step son.
2025-07-31 13:41:48
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Aves <3 :
How do you set those boundaries when the court doesn’t take dad’s side?
2025-08-01 17:07:39
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presina :
your husband is usually the problem trust me on this one
2025-09-01 13:20:17
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sweetsbylency :
Exactly what I did almost a year agai and my state of mind my stress levels have gotten back to normal again I was going crazy over a situation the bitter BM started since yrs ago! For me loving her children so much! She was & is a horrible person! Simply backed away and it’s been so refreshing
2025-08-01 17:28:41
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Beck Heeley🖤 :
I don’t know if I’ve read this wrong here but I think step children should always have a seat at the table
2025-08-27 03:20:52
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Demi :
I’ve been on both sides, and all I keep thinking is how easyyy it is to just be easy. I’ve been the stepmom with respect and boundaries dealing with a semi-difficult bio mom, and now I’m the bio mom dealing with a completely nasty stepmom with no boundaries. The children are who suffer and it makes no sense.
2025-08-15 05:11:26
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Nxumalo Inno :
maybe I'm bitter, I don't have a problem with the new partner aslong as they not involved in my child's life I'm good. let them have their own baby for their peace
2025-08-30 22:56:50
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Suzanne :
Tell bio dad what your boundaries are and make him set them.
2025-08-14 06:56:31
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Ashley Libby&RoostertheGSD :
Yes
2025-08-02 03:34:04
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Caringer🖤 :
Literally about to go crazy over here!! How do u keep sane!! The conflict is unreal!! Every day something new!
2025-07-31 22:08:20
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Skin Lab by Jahmaika ✨ :
Boundaries boundaries boundaries it does protect your bio kids and yourself ❤️
2025-07-31 13:57:18
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beckypaige_8 :
The guys who likes me has a crazy baby mama and he is scared that it’s going to scare me away. My mom worked with him before she retired and would notice how he looked at me and watched me when I would come in. My mom pulled me to this man literally pulled me to him cause he liked me and knew he was a good guy. It’s Terrible that people are like this and that they can’t coparent peacefully cause one parent is a jerk
2025-08-17 22:18:29
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