@datingcheatcodes: Why was your AVOIDANT ex able to commit to someone else? #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #avoidant #anxiousavoidanttrap #situationship #breakups #datingcheatcodes
Avoidants never marry someone they actually love or want.
2025-08-02 08:13:56
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CINDY🎀 :
It could be because they feel more in control if they feel less for someone, as opposed to someone who “triggers” them. Being with someone they feel a deeper connection may make them more vulnerable and anxious. They like things light, easygoing. So it’s easier for them to commit if things are low stakes i.e. they’re not deeply attached to the other person.
2025-08-01 03:27:55
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🫥 :
Avoidants fake who they are throughout the rship
2025-08-01 14:44:00
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Meliodas :
In resume for everybody: If they commit more, it means that they love less, so it’s still a win for you
2025-08-03 16:39:01
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Antonio Breez :
They don’t treat the next person any better
2025-08-03 16:10:25
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CP :
So they downgraded.
2025-08-01 16:27:53
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Jess | Gen❌️G7️⃣ :
I will not agree to or speak into the universe that he has moved on. I know he hasn't and won't. IF he does, I honestly wish him happiness. but also know he will never be hapoy with anyone until he is happy with himself. I speak daily in existence that it's for me. and if it isnt so be it. I've learned to love him from a far and I can continue
2025-07-31 13:44:22
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Austin Mangum :
is it our fault for trying to make them be vulnerable and open up? like did I push too much or was too emotionally needy?
2025-08-01 03:32:41
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ice_aeyeah :
Lol they can have her.
2025-08-01 12:25:31
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J A S 🩶 :
Thank you, I needed to hear this!
2025-08-05 15:52:18
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🐇🕯️ bunny 🫧 🏰 :
Yep! I was strung along for years and he committed to someone else about a month after meeting her. She had never dated anyone before so no high expectations and she is extremely unemotional and very closed off and shy
2025-08-01 16:40:09
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Sarah :
Are you eating jalapeños ?
2025-08-01 03:33:25
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Stephen ballard :
So I don’t know if this is necessary true with all avoidants. My girlfriend is an fa and so am I. We were on and off again for six months. The last time I went no contact for 3 month. After those three months I finally responded to a text, she apologized, said she wanted to commit, she wanted to move in with me and we got engaged. She still withdrawals but I hold her accountable and we talk about it but I have learned that timing is everything. When she gets trigged and shuts down I go to her and say I know she needs space and that we will talk in a couple of days and I hold to that and we work through what triggered her which is usually not feeling seen or heard. Her nervous system is learning I am safe and I’m learning I don’t need to fix it right away. That’s not saying we are perfect and we don’t have a long way to go.
2025-08-03 00:39:54
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Leppy :
Good to know
2025-08-01 03:13:50
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Darlene :
Needed to hear this rn, thx love🥰💖💜
2025-07-31 23:19:41
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Kimberly 💟 :
I'll move onto a better connection for myself
2025-07-31 17:57:26
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DangerousCrves :
they aren't demanding NOW but they willllll
2025-08-01 22:54:18
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HomeContesta.com :
Just let your ex. be an Exit... their NO become ..Next Opportunities.
a relationship is not a prison.. let Them GO.....
2025-08-01 21:56:47
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Heather McKenzie475 :
It’s because they require less. That’s it. It’s a very lonely existence.
2025-07-31 13:41:31
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Gray ♥️🧡🤍💗💜 :
Thank you. 💞 But what are you eating? 🥣
2025-08-01 05:33:22
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crystal97231 :
Commit??? Well… I think we had different definitions!
2025-08-01 12:49:44
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Homeskillet :
Olives..eww
2025-08-02 07:29:14
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