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manisha :
Man if he wanted to hear a thank you he should have acted in a way that was worth a thank you
2025-08-02 05:05:18
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mnb 💗 :
Sorry if it's insensitive, but these ppl are so exhausting to date. It's a bunch of giving and giving while receiving so little back.
2025-08-26 05:33:00
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regaanh :
Aka they want their ego stroked?
2025-08-19 11:36:59
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leahziamoves :
so they want affirmation and attention but freeze up when you want warmth or assurance. cool.
2025-08-20 19:08:39
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lilithius :
Just don't tell them these things they would just walk all over you. 🙄
2025-08-01 21:27:58
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ALordReacts :
You don’t owe a thank you to someone avoidant behavior! They’re too similar to narcs, they offer nothing and expect praise. They’re too similar shouldn’t disrupt your peace by pretending to want relationships, you owe them Nothing! We’ve all had to heal from this trauma
2025-08-01 22:08:09
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eriennmd :
I said all these he still left 😩
2025-08-02 14:18:45
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ᥫ᭡ :
so in other words. give, everything and receive nothing?
2025-09-30 19:57:38
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🏮🏮MR.MORELAND🏮🏮 :
we waved at each other today. and I think that was too much emotion for her.
2025-08-08 17:57:36
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Tepho :
Please as a community lets stop empathizing with insecure attatchments as if they were little frightened puppies. They are humans that harm others
2025-08-23 16:34:16
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liv ✧˖°.☪︎.𖥔 ݁ ˖ :
These are all great but when you say these, and the avoidant doesn’t do any of these things like open up or communicate (even a teeny bit), it builds resentment. They use it as an out.
2025-08-04 13:53:22
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Claire Highton-Stevenson :
I said all that...she's not spoken to me since...
2025-08-01 20:53:39
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Shaikha Alyaqout :
Said all of that and he still pushed me to leave
2025-09-24 11:59:43
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Otinanai :
Avoidants want to hear “i am gone” see what happens
2025-08-02 13:16:27
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🐺 S3AN "WoLFCHiLd" R3Y3S 🎶🎙 :
Except that's not exactly true.. often times the avoidant is simply just not emotionally available or mature enough to even be in the relationship. Yet they'll breadcrumb just enough to keep us there because they still love the attention but not enough to properly reciprocate it.. And this leaves us givers completely drained. No thanks
2025-08-01 23:46:28
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𓅭 :
i agree with all these points, but it is worth noting you still need to eventually break the ice with them to get them to recognize their patterns (along with communicating your own) so they can become self aware and start working towards improvement. If you only say these, you're reinforcing their avoidant tendencies. and if you don't preface these with a serious conversation, they will assume there is nothing wrong with keeping you at a distance until you say otherwise. and the longer you take to initiate the conversation, the more it will seem like betrayal. so it is CRUCIAL to converse early on!
2025-08-09 03:26:28
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Tina :
They do not even care about our,, thank you,,.
2025-08-03 01:47:34
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arc_of_fire_studios :
Wrong! Mine only told me to stop thanking them.
2025-08-03 03:52:52
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lunapixxie :
idk, I was often saying thank you and praising my avoidant ex but he would just get annoyed and told me off for complimenting him! But I think he was more than just avoidant
2025-09-28 12:32:37
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Eremites :
and now what do avoidants should do towards their partners. because it's not like only others have to read instructions and be specialists in communication?
2025-08-10 16:54:37
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Evelyn Alicia662 :
I wrote a letter that said thank you for opening up last night… he dipped 🤦♀️dead silence
2025-08-27 16:19:28
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TheGreatComet :
Using this as a helpful guide so I can be better, I’m anxious attachment but I’m learning to not pull as hard and work with them instead of against so thank you for this
2025-08-09 00:29:15
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Hysope :
aren't those just normal things to say to someone you care about...?
2025-08-16 07:23:27
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Schiraz Ben Hamadou :
avoidends, some of them take with no gratitude. avoidends might behave the way they behave because of their guilty conscience towards you. they refuse speaking out what makes you feel well, but speak out what hurts or creates distance. their craft/ handiwork can be miraculous and they bathe in your gratitude and admiration. thats why theyi are eager to act!
2025-08-18 07:45:47
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