@lovelivesfree: It's crazy how a few years back people were celebrating "h0e culture and casual sex;" and now we are having a resurgence of STDS and STIs epidemics everywhere. I know people like to think "oh how terrible of God to make sex something that should be enjoyed among the married," but I'd like to believe the boundary was out of love, understanding, and safety for humanity. He knew something so good would become bad in the care of those who lacked discipline and an understanding of covenant. At this point in our society, abstinence could literally protect your peace and save your life!