@helzaaaaa: with turning another year older these thoughts have been very present lately, I know comparison is the thief of joy but it’s hard, I struggle so much with feeling behind and that I’m not doing enough and I know I’m not alone! #dunkin #series #fyp #feelingstuck #chattyvlog @Dunkin'
Ugh I get it!! I’m in that stage too! You got this!!
2025-08-18 04:42:45
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✨Paola | beauTEA✨ :
girl everything has its own timing and the timing is different for every person! don’t feel pressured by society! I was pressured in highschool to have a relationship because everyone was dating and ppl kept “making fun” of me being single and I used to be crying to my granpa(he is my best friend) all the time, but he always said “everything has its own timing” and i live by that. he was right. then I meet a man at 19 and we are getting married
2025-08-02 00:32:21
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Gianna.Marie :
Ouuu loveee this ☺️☺️
2025-08-04 14:18:04
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michelle avila 🌸 nyc creator :
girl I relate so much, once I got out of my 5 year relationship my life feels a little behind, i’m single as ever, gonna get another masters, and just really still figuring out life😭 I also see the announcements on facebook and i’m just like ugh but then I remember everything is gonna happen in my own time and who knows maybe i’m meant to be single forever😂
2025-08-02 00:50:42
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Saylor :
I get it… but I am trying to just enjoy where I am in life! Just do you!
2025-08-02 16:27:51
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lifewithsam :
I totally get this! I am married and have my career, but I still get questions about when I’m buying a house, when I’m having kids, etc. I’ve just accepted that it really will never stop! It is definitely a society pressure to reach the “big milestones” but really those milestones is what YOU make it!
2025-08-06 22:27:56
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Amzi Nelson✨🍓🪩🧚🏼♀️💕 :
Girl I feel the being stuck thing 💗😭 we will get to our goals someday soon
2025-08-02 04:06:45
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Sonia Purohit :
I feel like Im so far behind in every aspect of life but Im still going on trips and concerts and I fear thats all I care for😭
2025-08-02 04:40:49
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Nicole Kruszka :
Ugh I feel this so much!! I'm 26 and feel behind
2025-08-02 17:43:11
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Annie :
Girl! I felt everything you said!! It’s definitely hard trying to find your place in the world! But remember you aren’t behind! You are exactly where you need to be!! But I definitely understand how hard it is not to compare ourselves to others!
2025-08-02 00:23:23
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Marissa | CLT :
Girl me too x976554
2025-08-03 12:17:55
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Ava 🫧🐚 :
This is exactly how I feel too
2025-08-02 11:42:43
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KayQ :
yumm that refresher is so good❤️
2025-08-02 14:16:51
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viryy12 :
Omg i feel the same way!! But our time will come when we least expect it!!!🥰 i had to learn to just let go of those expectations people put on us and we put on ourselves!! Its not worth our energy!! Just try to enjoy now , this moment!! And all the good things u got going on🥰
2025-08-02 04:48:25
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Kasia :
I’ve experienced this before and here’s what helped me. Step 1 was moving out of my hometown- it changed my mindset, routine, life, everything. And it got me out of that stuck feeling! Another thing that helped was creating a vision board with my goals. It’s super motivating and looking back at the end of the year you realize how much you’ve accomplished :))
2025-08-02 13:18:23
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SARA :
I also feel this way! It sucks, but we have to remember we are on our own path and we are where we are supposed to be
2025-08-08 13:21:43
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vernidazannee🎀 :
can relate to this girl😫 but our time will come when it’s right for us🥰🫶🏽
2025-08-02 05:14:35
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Tayler | Lifestyle Content :
Don’t rush! But if you WANT change, you’ll have to push yourself to do things that make you uncomfortable at first 💗
2025-08-02 19:09:46
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haley shaffor | girl mom 🫧🌷✨ :
getting pregnant at 19 was not in my plan but it’s become such a blessing. At first, i felt so behind, especially since i’m in college. having to take a semester off was rough and i felt so behind but i just reminded myself God has. a plan and everything will work out for me! You got this girl and don’t worry about “being” behind because you’re right where you need to be! 💓
2025-08-04 15:39:01
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Mannn :
I’m only 20 and I’m on such a different path than my friends, but I know that everyone is on their own journey and I feel like that’s such a beautiful thing ❤️
2025-08-02 18:57:50
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🌷🪴⭐️🪐🥥🌿🪸🌊 :
i feel the same as someone who decided not to chose the path of college. i think that we all have lots of time left and things will come when the time is right 🩷 this is very relatable
2025-08-04 02:18:20
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sydney 🤍 :
I totally understand this. You’re not alone babes ❤️our day to shine will come 🫶🏻
2025-08-03 13:11:34
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taylorhoffman :
I relate so hard to this. 💛 You are not alone!
2025-08-02 01:38:31
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reagan 💋 :
aww thanks for being so real bestie! social media makes everything and everyone look more perfect than it really is. we’re all on our own path and timeline.. but this is so relatable and real 🫶🫶
2025-08-02 02:21:42
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Jennifer Martin :
Girly it will all work out. A day at a time
2025-08-02 02:05:27
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