@_prolumchild: Whole time it’s them vs them, not them vs you. No one can run from their shadow but if they insist let them try, it will only revisit them again in another way they can’t ignore until they learn the lessons and apply themselves. #relationships #relatable #relationshipgoals

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anthonyv1826
Anthony :
Hard conversations and standards do not destroy relationships, silence and avoidance does.
2025-08-03 05:28:15
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r.kennan
R :
They're so emotionally unintelligent w/ a disrupted nervous system, that they don't even consider the source in which the information is coming from. They don't consider the the message is coming from someone who has never been disloyal or malicious to them. They've become accustomed to a certain level of chaos. I just remove myself from them cus they'll eventually sabotage the healing work you've done on yourself. They won't rise to your level but they'll try to bring you down to theirs.
2025-08-02 23:44:15
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3aries.xo
Aries♈️ :
EGGZACTLEEE! unconditional love is confrontational, not avoidant or dismissive
2025-08-17 00:03:34
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lunamonae
Lunaverse :
They’ll push you away but then preach about wanting love and peace 🥴
2025-08-03 02:00:45
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samaraktay
samarakkv :
How do I not take criticism as a weapon ? Because I am just now learning on effective communication and being an effective listener . I am still struggling with not being defensive .
2025-08-20 00:21:39
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brebarn33
Bre.Lyn :
Is it bad if I send this to him…
2025-08-18 21:51:41
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little_wolftx
Little wolf Josey :
You’ll open their eyes but they’ll leave you after they improve and be the best self for the next person
2025-08-05 23:28:24
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well_hung_tv
Well Hung Tv :
I'd like to add that those that are doing the work should be cautious that you aren't standing with a messiah complex because it can and often is both them being comfortable with poor behavior and one being on a high horse.
2025-08-22 19:47:21
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ashleelostfiless
ashlee💓 :
let me send this to him
2025-08-23 01:20:18
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sistaakae
sistaakae :
Can’t lie that’s me, or somewhat. But I acknowledge the areas I need to grow in, it is uncomfortable, but I know it’s worth it. I have to. For myself for my child, for my future spouse or friends etc. Growing up it was definitely chaotic, toxic, argumentative & unhealthy, non peaceful environments. Got sa’d a few times from my pre teens even to my earlier 20s which I’m still in. I am defensive and sometimes I am wrong but the way I’m still wired because of trauma and all, it’s not easy to change, but it does hit hard when I know I have the potential in ME to grow. Healing is up and down. I’m doing better, but i definitely know I can do more. It’s just a matter of consistency, God, and motivation from my past. I’m a very talented and intelligent woman, but I can acknowledge I need to do more self healing inner work. Heal my inner child so I can heal my child. Break cycles so he doesn’t go through it. It’s just so much, but one thing at a time right now
2025-08-10 08:27:41
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brookelala5612
brookelala :
My ex said she was pushing me to do better but, I’m disabled. I moved, went back to work, pushed daily. It was making me sicker.. be careful bc sometimes abusers claim they are doing things from “care” how can we tell the difference?
2025-08-22 05:25:36
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bellakenya
K E N Y A • B E L L A • :
Nothing grows in the comfort zone
2025-08-03 05:45:10
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kiiisjournee
Kiiisjournee :
It’s DRAINING
2025-08-03 04:27:12
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cussamerbev
Charity Ater-Melton :
Omg THIS! I have discovered during my spiritual awakening that my PURPOSE is to (unintentionally) trigger people in the things that need healing within them. And let me tell you it SUCKS TO BE ME! lol. 😬 😆
2025-08-11 23:12:02
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noodlethescorpio
Noodle🦂 :
wow dealing with this rn and i chose to walk away
2025-08-03 04:35:21
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mariefreund9935
mariefreund9935 :
Blind people REALLY cannot see but prayer changes things. Even in our most hopeless state, when we find it impossible to change anything, GOD can change Everything!😇🙏
2025-08-16 16:25:44
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eunoia.esthetic
Eunoia | ESTHETICIAN 🫧 :
They ain’t ready.
2025-08-02 22:04:14
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thenerdlingz
Nerdz :
Just left my bf of 5 years cause I constantly felt and was told I was the root of the problems in our relations, felt I could never have a conversation that was just about what I needed from them or discuss things that they kept doing that I’d ask them to stop, or that hurt my feelings. But I’m “not great at communicating” so it’d turn into an argument, id end up crying and yelling then he says because I act like that is why he never speaks to me or, it’s his reasoning for just not responding.
2025-08-15 13:17:01
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seasonsofher._
SOH | Real Talk & Healing :
and that’s why they ran. not because it wasn’t love—but because love asked them to grow.
2025-08-04 17:21:05
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gospelofvenus
•Isa• :
at this point in my life I keep just telling ppl "I told you so" and they sabotage their way out of my life. bc i ain't changing my attitude when they wont take accountability. get over it or fold and get outttt
2025-08-16 15:03:47
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nncolebby
Natasha 🖤 :
sometimes people do recognize their problems & can take accountability but fear to actually do the work because they fear themselves. they scared to face them inner demons.
2025-08-11 14:21:50
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steph_avila87
📕 Poetic _ justice ⚖️ :
they will never see it as love they will see it as you attacking them . learning in love is a blessing . 🌹
2025-08-03 02:48:30
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blockchainluv
Blockchainluv :
It really sucks you realize they aren’t ready and you can’t stay or else you’ll end up loosing yourself trying to push them to grow
2025-08-06 02:30:15
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yanni2662
crybaby junior 🩵 :
This!!!! And I always find my self apologizing how bringing things up but it’s just like I have to talk about the things that bother me or things I can see need improvement within our relationship
2025-08-11 17:14:43
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samiamnogreeneggsorham
Samantha :
This gave me some REAL self actualization!!! Whew 😅 Thank you!!! Lemme get back to work…
2025-08-02 22:53:22
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