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waavyyy.s
Steff🥰 :
Did the judge listen to him at all?
2025-08-03 12:20:13
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dionewatwha
dionew1975 :
that's not fair?!! he has them more than she does
2025-08-03 12:02:14
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andreagee985
andreagee985 :
When our local judge did this to my ex, I just gave the money back to him when I received it. The judgement wasn't fair. Right is right! He and I are besties and our daughter is 37.💜
2025-08-03 13:24:25
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ironsidetank
Ironsidetank :
The judge had her mind set up before he even said anything or probably even heard anything
2025-08-03 11:38:33
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lamontmiller762
Dejuan Miller :
he got railroad the system does not have the best interest of the child period
2025-08-03 11:56:08
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warren_d15
Warren :
The state receives money every time they put somebody on child support
2025-08-04 16:05:11
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astoldbybrian
AsToldByBrian :
The judge didn’t listen to anything. If he’s getting the child half of the week…idk seems like a better decision could have been made
2025-08-03 14:37:20
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rhill1289
Rhill1289 :
Dude you in the wrong court ! Get a lawyer and go to family court! You went to court unprepared!!!!!! Child support doesn’t care abt any agreements you and your ex has ! They could care less!!!! Never go to court without a lawyer! Never , never.
2025-08-03 17:26:17
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dougedward338
Doug Edward338 :
Seems like the judge wasn't even listening.
2025-08-04 11:11:21
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kush_ny_albo
Kushtrim Shurdhani :
Why he got pay 429 when the kid is with him 4 days and she got 3 days she should pay him
2025-08-03 14:22:51
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hiramrivera041
hiramrivera041 :
This is when the fathers need to step up and take full custody of their child.
2025-08-04 06:30:32
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jnac911
jnac911 :
Courts get paid from the federal government for every $ u pay in child support
2025-09-23 19:44:54
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bee_single
smooches💋 :
he got that order because she has primary care and control with joint custody. if he has primary care and control she would be paying. if they had joint care and control neither would pay. he has to file for that. please stop going to court without a lawyer. you are not a legal professional
2025-08-04 14:24:37
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romeojoseph30
DTNB :
the system is about the money...
2025-08-04 05:04:54
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wallybanz16
WallyBanz16 :
Y are they even in court 1? Baby mother must did this out of spite! Cause she never said nothing to stop this from going down.
2025-08-03 20:43:15
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emanueliduh
Immanuel :
This crazy why is the judge pushing the younger man by making him to pay 429 per month
2025-08-06 01:25:07
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rhdoinitbig
Richard Henderson :
You always have to get legal representation in order to truly be heard. They used his testimony against him. You have to provide a legal reasoning for your disagreement.
2025-08-04 16:45:45
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mash3.2
MashSwangs :
is this judge ok upstairs??? or she is using her emotions to hand down this unfair judgement
2025-08-04 13:53:34
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cjhendricks
Cj Hendricks :
They wnt to keep u in the system to get they cut 🥺😤😡
2025-08-05 13:05:52
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jay845127
Jay84 :
so he had the kid 4 days a week ahe has him 3 and he has to pay her
2025-08-08 17:15:10
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christopherforbe6
Christopher Forbes :
She he gets the child most of the week and still has to pay child support?
2025-08-28 15:14:16
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kingquesttion
kingquesttion :
That’s sad
2025-08-05 17:45:21
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island.slim.coco
King 👑 of de Islands :
the judge behavior while the father was speaking says she was not interested I would advised him to file to be the conservator as he has the child so that works in his favor
2025-08-10 06:34:25
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vee08236
vee :
what the he'll is happening here. so is the court suggesting he should disengage in favour of money?
2025-08-16 08:40:45
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jessejay79
Jesse M. :
Judge wants her money.
2025-08-03 21:14:24
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