@healingwithemilyg: 0:15 examples 0:39 how they use punishment 1:12 how it exploits your empathy 1:18 CPTSD connection 1:49 fawn trauma response connection Trying to make these videos shorter but I’ve studied these things extensively and have a lot to say. This is barely scratching the surface!! #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #gaslighting #darvo #childhoodtrauma #cptsd
it literally causes brain damage, i feel like i cant use my words properly anymore.
2025-09-27 02:28:00
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DoubleA :
I get mad they get away with it and want to expose them, how do I let go of that feeling 🙃
2025-08-05 13:07:54
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holding.space.as.your.bestie :
Every single time I would work up the courage to explain in a different way; trying to find a better way to communicate my needs or hurt feelings of betrayal but I’m the one who cried because I didn’t want to hurt him in any way and I would feel so guilty for trying a kinder way to express my pain and I have never shared this but my tears made him arous… wanting to be intimate when I was crying. Thankfully I’m out x 2 years and can finally admit how disgusting this is!
2025-08-03 19:20:30
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Donnielle Mondello :
Learning the name for DARVO was a major step in getting out of a marriage to a narcissist
2025-08-04 15:29:11
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Portia · Chrysalis Skin Lab :
And the best thing you can do is stand in being “miss understood” and exit the drama spiral
2025-08-03 18:33:32
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Shelby :
My husband was actively cheating on me while I was home with the kids 24/7 and he flipped it telling everyone I was sneaking men in the house at night
2025-09-23 13:01:19
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Cam :
Yep. It’s soul destroying.
2025-08-03 18:23:50
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K I M M :
“That’s right you’re Mrs Perfect”
2025-09-14 10:51:47
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🦈 :
I catched her lying about what she was doing and she told me how uncomfortable she was with me stalking what she was doing
2025-08-07 13:22:52
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Little Bear :
or! you get away from them, ans they show up to YOUR friend group and try to convince them you are the problem... and they believe him without even asking me 😭
2025-09-24 13:22:15
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littlebearlemonadetucson :
This!!! All of this … I’m not crazy 😢
2025-08-03 23:26:19
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𝔪𝔢𝔡𝔲𝔰𝔰𝔶⏾ :
I had to have hypnotherapy to recover from the abuse. This is so serious
2025-09-27 02:31:05
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The WatchMaker’s Code :
DARVO should be taught in school, because… dang
2025-09-03 17:56:26
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PukingGlitter✨🏴 :
My ex is doing this right now.. he slept with someone else and because my feelings are hurt, I'm just a manipulator and I'm angry because I can't control him etc.. And i feel gaslit. I've moved back home and blocked him on everything.
2025-09-05 21:02:46
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Lindsey_McLaughlin :
When a stranger says something that makes you say “mhmmm” out loud involuntarily. This connected dots, and explained my behavior (fawning). Also, thank you for reinforcing that certain behaviors are narcissistic and nots response to someone who has to be “always right”. This was confirming + confronting (in an educated manner)
2025-08-05 01:35:27
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Peachy 🍑 :
Every time I set a boundary or brought up something that bugged me, I was instantly the bad guy. And when I finally decided I was done with them, they villainized me and started committing abuse tactics like isolating me from my friends, manipulation, gaslighting, etc. so glad I’m free though
2025-08-14 21:23:52
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caeleighmccormick :
I sent him to jail for trying to unalive me, he acts as if hes the victim because i finally put him in jail. It doesnt end ladies.
2025-09-27 12:38:26
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🤍Kaliegh🤍 :
And be the same ones telling you to take accountability while actively in reactive mode from psychopathic behavior them and their friends are projecting onto you!
2025-08-04 12:24:36
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Barbie :
is horrifying 😔
2025-08-04 07:45:10
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Kelli :
Those kind of reactions from my mom 😔
2025-08-05 11:41:26
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OwO :
Shout out to my ex
2025-09-04 16:58:38
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caona :
Spot on. Ugh. Him AND his mom . His mom said “you know he became the victim too” after he was exposed. HUHH
2025-09-15 23:29:19
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Kimber :
I just posted a video recording about this. I hate it!
2025-08-06 03:01:15
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ϵ(•͈⌔•͈)϶ GOT7 cartoon :
my abuser did that at the very end, sadly i didnt notice back then, i believed i was rly the monster and put myself in dangerous physical condition for days bc of the doubt
2025-08-21 22:50:53
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TattoosByBeau :
Being able to identify it takes away that power over you so you can just see it for what it is. Removing yourself from that is the only way to get back to you
2025-08-05 21:41:26
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