@i.am.waffl3z: What boundaries do you set when someone isn't sure about their identity? There's a conversation we need to have about a specific type of heartbreak that happens in lesbian dating. I want to say upfront that I absolutely support women exploring their sexuality. Questioning is healthy. Self-discovery is important. But there's a difference between honest exploration and using someone's heart as your testing ground. Too many lesbians have been through this. You meet someone who seems genuinely interested. You build something real together. You make plans. You fall in love. Then suddenly they're back with men, and you're left wondering what just happened. The aftermath is brutal in a way that's hard to explain to people who haven't lived it. You start doubting everything about yourself. Your femininity. Your worth. Whether you're destined to always be the stepping stone to someone's "real" relationship. This isn't about shaming women for figuring themselves out. It's about asking for honesty during that process. It's about recognizing that lesbian hearts aren't practice runs for heterosexuality. When someone lets you invest emotionally while they're still uncertain about wanting women at all, that creates a specific kind of damage. You become complicit in your own erasure without even knowing it. The healing comes from understanding it was never about your adequacy. It was about their uncertainty. Your love wasn't deficient. It was just given to someone who couldn't fully receive it. Women exploring their sexuality deserve space and support. Lesbian women deserve transparency about that exploration from the beginning. #lesbiandating #lateinlifelesbian #wlw #lesbiansoftiktok #wlwdating

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