Being a stepdad is like not being invited to the party yet is asked to clean up the venue afterwards!
2025-08-04 22:05:13
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jaynettejay :
I agree with him. I just wish women with no kids will also see the risk for them dating men with children. Women with no children please think how men think there is no advantage for you dating a man with multiple kids especially if he has more than one baby mamma!
2025-08-04 15:26:54
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Dontkill_myvibez :
Being a stepdad is the most selfless act any man can be but most of the single mothers prioritize their kids over the man, leaving the man feeling unappreciated and unwanted!
2025-08-08 15:29:39
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terrycurtis96 :
Perfect explanation. The new husband is no one’s priority.
2025-08-04 10:11:27
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Loved :
I guess single moms should date single dads ...it's fair that way
2025-08-13 09:16:28
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jbig1996 :
Single mothers also need to be careful of men who are older, present well but magically don’t come with an EX or their own kids. Sad fact is. Most men don’t run to single mothers, but Predators DO!, a lot of men who get with single mothers arnt there for the woman, there masking a facade to get access to her children. Hence why statistically the risk of a child being abused increases 20x when a non biological male enters a family dynamic…
2025-09-01 07:43:16
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Mannykisha :
This is the most civil non yelling explanation
2025-08-04 00:27:12
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Jihad Baracus :
I didn’t want to assume another man’s emotional and financial obligations. I didn’t want all of the fatherly responsibilities with out any of the authority. Also, I didn’t want to make sacrifices for children who wouldn’t further my blood line or my families legacy.
2025-08-03 21:06:39
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Zeph_10_Times :
Fellas, it’s Plenty of Fish in the Sea. Never Listen to the Fish on how to Catch the Fish, Always Listen to the Fishermen‼️🤧
2025-08-05 17:56:03
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InteriorVisionsRVA :
I’ve been on TikTok for years. How am I now just seeing you guys?!? You guys are awesome!!🔥
2025-12-06 23:40:33
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StylezzP :
Broken down in a way without argument is amazing
2025-08-04 15:17:03
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Demetrius Young :
He is 💯 correct.
2025-08-06 19:15:06
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It's me BIJI :
that's the mature convo looks like. 🔥
2025-08-06 01:30:51
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bradburnett47 :
The man is an island, surrounded by crocodiles, especially if the father is still in the picture. He’s in a losing situation.
2025-08-06 00:59:39
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Jr ♤ Duran :
Never worked for me- I treated her kids as if they where mine - Never again 💯
2025-08-06 16:35:59
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Desirea :
Unfortunately, he is telling the truth. I have a son and I wouldn’t advise my son to pursue a woman with kids. I am thankful for all my kids were by my husband.
2025-09-25 21:00:47
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TheGeekAtl :
Step Dads are the men single mothers wouldn't date before they had children!
2025-08-04 22:06:38
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Jigga420Jeremy Haynes :
I love this!!!! Logic over Emotion
2025-08-04 21:43:04
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Mikey :
Why would I buy a car with a trailer permanently attached and the engine backfires? I'll take a scooter. 👍
2025-08-06 13:42:56
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moby315🇿🇦 :
As a Man I can confirm this is 💯truth spot on👌💯
2025-08-17 10:31:26
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philipten5 :
Pay for her and her kids for 13 years and when they’re grown, she’s going to go for the guy she wants.
2025-08-04 14:30:45
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msobhana626 :
there is no honor in being a step dad
2025-08-29 16:34:00
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TyQJohnson :
Thank y’all for having this conversation. It’s much more refreshing to get these perspectives from people that show empathy and understanding and are in successful marriages and/or relationships.
2025-08-06 13:15:00
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Celess Jackson ❌♉ :
now that was well explained and easily understood. thank you for real for real💯❤️
2025-08-05 18:06:51
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