There is also generational trauma that happens in utero that says if the mother was stressed/anxious during pregnancy the fetus will likely feel that way in life.
2025-08-05 01:18:17
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Ash ♡ :
I’m convinced he helps me regulate. I can’t be too stressed staring at my baby
2025-08-05 12:41:05
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thespiritanalyst :
I think my daughter gave me her untraumatized nervous system to help mine when I was pregnant tbh. I was escaping DV while pregnant and that baby somehow gave me some shehulk strength
2025-08-04 19:24:30
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Sheridan Foxworth :
Infancy AND the first 5 years of their life!!!
2025-08-04 23:44:00
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Cristal Gonzalez :
My little one is teaching me to be calm through coregulation. I never knew it was what I needed 💜
2025-08-05 19:12:59
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ed :
this is why i need to cut contact with my parents. they keep me on high alert and he needs a calm and stable mom. and i can never truly be that unless i leave
2025-08-05 16:08:38
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A.segrest :
Yeah this tracks. I get frustrated in the middle of the night when he doesn’t sleep and he doesn’t go to sleep with me (sometimes) then my husband will take him and he is jaur calm as a cucumber and mt baby goes to sleep immediately 😭
2025-08-05 15:58:38
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Catherine 🫶🏻✨ :
This is crazy but explains so much! My son can literally feel when I’m upset or stressed
2025-08-07 09:13:31
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paigeinthemaking :
When my daughter was first born and in nicu the second time I held her and she was crying and I couldn’t settle her and I started crying and the nurse goes “don’t cry you’ll make it worse” 😅
2025-08-05 05:58:14
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Jay :
This is the exact reason why they tell you to walk away if you’ve already met their needs. Your stress is their stress. If you can walk away and calm down, you can come back and calm them. They’ll be okay for a few minutes while you settle
2025-08-05 16:15:07
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Jasmine :
This makes me sad because I’ve had the most stressful pregnancy due to outside factors 😔
2025-08-05 15:06:34
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DelleHealth25 :
Such a great reminder!!! 🥰
2025-08-05 14:09:08
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Morgan Darden :
Needed this reminder 😭😅💛
2025-08-05 00:05:48
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user8924718836878 :
I wish somebody would’ve told me this when I was a new mom
2025-08-06 00:41:02
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Jess :
I cried a good amount my oldest daughter is special needs and acted out while I was pregnant and cause a lot of stress, the whole pregnancy I was high risk and then when the baby became high risk I cried so much and when they told me I might need a c section because she was measuring big. But i actually have a really calm baby, I tried to manage my stress and not be as emotional but sometimes my hormones got the best of me.
2025-08-05 06:26:58
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Loretta | first time mom :
Except my newborn’s cries give me anxiety 😅 so I am not calm or regulated
2025-08-06 03:41:36
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peggyweggy :
Oooops
2025-08-06 10:10:49
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cjt🎄 :
How come I didn’t see this 3 hours ago????? I needed it then my poor baby and I both lost it. And now she’s asleep and I’m just holding her feeling sad that I got upset at her.😭😭😭😭😭😭
2025-08-05 07:04:52
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Ms.Greenthumb :
Yep!!! I agree with this! I used to have a lot of “issues” & after being pregnant never had them again & my daughter definitely calms down immediately when I’m calm
2025-08-05 15:20:10
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AccidntlyGenius🩷 :
So of course you shouldn’t be letting them ‘cry it out’ but if you need a few minutes to calm yourself down, don’t be afraid to leave them in a safe place. Them crying for just few minutes is always better than letting yourself get frustrated with your baby🩷
2025-08-05 16:59:08
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HeyItsDani :
Wowowowowowow this hit so different ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
2025-08-05 01:14:17
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cessaleepullin :
i handle things with getting stressed first. my husband (especially when pregnant) will try to tell me to not let it bother me or try not to get to emotional. he definitely brings me back to what is truly important during this time. 🤍
2025-08-05 02:43:59
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Trinny :
So true cuz my husband and I freaked out outside cuz our tomato’s had hornworms and did that yucky gross ahhh yell thing and I was holding my 7 month old who then also started to freak out and get upset. Poor guy!
2025-08-05 01:13:56
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