@drewwdaniels: when we don’t want to revisit what hurt our partner- it’s because we don’t like OUR feelings about it. not theirs. #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #relationshipproblems #relationshipadvice #attachmentstyles #psychology
Lmao - discussing things ONCE would be great. Moreover, they don’t even communicate their own needs and problems meaning they resent you for expecting your needs being met.
2025-08-04 22:21:56
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nothankyouimachristian :
As a securely attached person the amount of avoidants I see fighting for their lives to come across as secure in their dysfunction is wild.
2025-08-05 01:14:20
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Jason Kraynek :
they dont listen, they just agree and promise / then never take action so it never gets solved / so you have to bring it up in another way to try to help come up with some other way / they agree and promise / then never take action so it never gets solved
2025-08-07 02:16:38
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Emily :
Put this on his fyp NOT MINE
2025-09-04 07:07:22
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Preacher Richard :
Very interesting interview. How you came up with the topic
2025-09-18 06:50:49
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ChgoCubsGirl :
Absolutely! And they DONT understand how they are brought up over and over because they’re partner has never felt that it’s been resolved because they just want to pretend that it never happened and say, “Well I’m not perfect like you are!” HORRIBLE!!
2025-10-03 16:06:44
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MsStryker :
very very very true. "do we have to do this" or "why are we talking about this again?" 😡🥴🥺
2025-08-05 01:20:21
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A_Matts :
Omg. Yup.
2025-09-11 13:46:34
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Drew Daniels :
In the way I present this- OF COURSE it sounds horrible right? Yet so many people have this very experience of Avoidance. If that’s the case- what might be happening inside of them to make them so resistant? What is it like do you imagine to not feel any level of comfort or safety to express how they feel? What do you think?
2025-08-04 21:39:18
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jlynndub :
Did you used to speak at Kensington Church?
2025-08-05 03:29:33
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Just maurel :
lmao yeah
2025-08-12 02:30:54
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DLov37y :
My covert narcissist ex used to do this. And frequently, if not ALL the time.
2025-08-05 16:41:40
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MindMoss ✨ :
avoidants are cowards
2025-08-04 22:42:41
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🐞pheebz🇨🇮 :
yup. he’d apologize just to shut me up when he barely heard me out just to rush the conversation. he never actually heard me or cared to. when i tried to recap and repair after an argument by saying stuff like “ok now what do we wanna do going forward” he’d always say he just wants to move on and not talk ab it anymore. it was exhausting bc i never felt heard.
2025-08-07 15:21:24
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LORI SMALLS :
It’s so tough. They want peace, but they don’t make things peaceful. And you’re right they don’t wanna be controlled, but that’s exactly what they do to others.
2025-08-05 23:24:18
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Attachment :
Avoidance are jerks! They will never change, even though they can. As long as the hurt doesn’t hurt them, they’re fine hurting their partner means nothing to them. They are literally jerks!
2025-08-05 12:45:54
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Dasha Smith aka Queenbee :
I’m sorry but yeah it’s not going be fixed if you don’t talk about it like we say in the hood close legs don’t get fed if you want something you say it
2025-08-06 18:59:40
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cyberbug :
quiet repost
2025-08-28 04:21:04
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