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Tuesday 05 August 2025 00:18:43 GMT
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Emily👽🖖 :
I'm so curious tho (totally get if no one wants to answer) why is "he" okay as an "entity just existing detached from gender" but "she" isn't while they're both gendered pronouns?
2025-08-05 16:16:25
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interiot🏳️⚧️ :
People need to realize the pronouns can be very rough approximations for much more complex ideas. If people want to know the full description, just ask , I'm usually happy to let them know.
2025-08-05 13:46:28
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abby :
Not a woman, not a man, just a very tired PhD student is SUCH a mood
2025-08-06 18:09:40
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dante he/him :
That’s SO valid i can’t imagine how tiring that must’ve been
2025-08-05 10:36:22
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bunniefish :
LITERALLY! For me, im a girl but like also a boy at the same time but nothing in totality but like a girl too. Pronouns ≠ gender!
2025-08-05 02:19:10
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bestieimafraidtotellyouthis🍉 :
people trying to exclude people from th lesbin label is truly the weakest link. trans men lesbians, trans masc lesbians, he/him lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, amab lesbians, lezboys, gnc lesbians and butches are all lesbians if they wanna be. im sorry you experienced so much hate for something as personal and small as pronouns. it should not matter at all. and policing each other will always only echo the voices of our oppressors 💖 I hope that people will be more respectful going forward
2025-08-05 00:39:37
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Joy ♡ :
I honestly hate how our existence is a debate, constantly people just arguing about queer people. Like why do I have to explain my existence to you!??
2025-08-05 05:12:25
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Sii🌈♾️ :
From someone that comes from a language that doesnt have "them", and "he" is the neutral pronoun, I can somewhat understand why "he" is ok even if you dont identify as a man
2025-08-05 00:38:55
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Breanna Mackenzie :
I think often straight people are still trying to fit queerness into the gender binary. You’ve never given man energy even with they/he in your bio
2025-08-05 06:28:46
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lacey :
fr, words are all literally just made up lmao
2025-08-05 23:27:37
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lesbians4julienbaker :
the “how are you a lesbian when you’re a man” question exhausts me so much
2025-08-05 18:50:41
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Oz :
The he/him lesbian discourse never ceases to be the most disruptive shit because like those of us who use they/he pronouns should not have to explain our genders like we’re being ID’d by the cis lesbian cops. Like I just want to be butch in peace
2025-08-05 18:05:02
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tourmaline queen 🇵🇸🇮🇪 :
the number of people who turn pronouns to something to fight about. I think that's why I realised they/them weren't for me. so frustrating.
2025-08-05 15:14:02
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Arha c: (she/her) :
Sometimes I forget people think gender isn’t made up
2025-08-05 13:22:29
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Liezy 🍉😷🌈 :
People were never more hostile to me than when I had “they/he” in my name, it was EXHAUSTING
2025-08-07 04:08:09
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ishi :
explaining that lesbians can use he/him pronouns but not identify as a man like rest
2025-08-05 08:31:41
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histofyl :
stop calling me Shirley
2025-08-05 20:45:59
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