“Mankeeping” is exhausting and leads to weaponized incompetence later in life
2025-08-05 13:17:16
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jazzib22 :
I blame all the TV shows where husbands have wife's out their league. like Homer and Marge
2025-08-05 12:35:59
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nikki 🇦🇺😘🩷 :
patriarchy says 'respect me like I'm superior to you but look after me like I'm inept'
2025-08-05 09:23:18
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Ilana :
Older millennial here, I watched dozens of my smart and vibrant friends become shells of themselves w husbands who offer zero support. No thanks!
2025-08-05 10:57:41
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🪐 :
….. wdym an adult man had to be told that you can let a breeze in by opening a window
2025-08-05 01:48:59
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Kayla Baker :
Weaponized incompetence is in abundance
2025-08-05 01:58:51
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MaSabela :
What I hear you say: Boys/men are not taught/expected to be functional adults. So girls/women are taught/expected take on the same caregiver role as a parent to a child.
2025-08-05 05:59:23
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kaff :
It’s not reciprocal. That’s the issue. We don’t mind helping you help those you love. But. Do it back. When is it my turn.
2025-08-05 06:45:39
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emma :
I refuse to be an adult’s mother. That’s not my job.
2025-08-05 08:30:03
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Monica :
But they are also resentful about it. “Don’t talk to me like I’m a child” but also please be my mommy.
2025-08-05 16:00:13
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aRguewithyomama :
I raised a man in my 20s. Never again. As soon as I sense there will be work, I’m out. Say no to free labour
2025-08-05 04:21:47
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UnicornGirl74 :
provide & protect? when did that ever really happen in history?
2025-08-05 04:20:02
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Fran💫 :
When my bf asked me to help him pack his suitcase and I asked why he wasn’t doing it himself and he said he was preparing me for the future that was when I knew I had to leave him and I did.
2025-08-05 10:06:01
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Tally 💗✨🎀 :
Honestly this really holds a lot of truth and it makes me think how many ‘good boyfriends and husbands’, were essentially made this way because of some previous female partner who’ll never EVER get credit.
2025-08-05 01:58:43
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lablount :
new first date question: when was the last time you scheduled a doctor’s appointment for yourself?
2025-08-05 07:57:34
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agirlnamedrichard :
So glad I’m awake and not falling for the propaganda of babysitting a partner
2025-08-05 05:58:25
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-Shawnna- :
Raising boys is not easier they are just neglected until they’re old enough to date. Then it become the spouses responsibility to teach them everything that their parents were supposed to.
2025-08-05 17:12:55
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JadedVagrant :
If I dare ask him to do housework he told me I should invite my girl friends over and have a cleaning day and I legit think he thought this was a super fun party girls day. Sir nobody is having fun cleaning your shit stained toilet. (My ex)
2025-08-05 08:18:26
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kaitfromscratch 🇨🇦 :
when I called my husband out for the fact that he never buys his young nieces and nephews gifts for their birthdays or Christmas (I do), he said "well, do kids even like gifts anyways?" 😑 I'm on the way out tbh
2025-08-05 01:56:56
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Liv Authentic Brand :
My husband was my worst behaved child.
2025-08-05 13:27:49
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Julesy :
As a boy mom, I've made it my mission to raise men who aren't like this. 🫡
2025-08-05 19:16:34
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Dominique :
You don’t start off just doing those things. It’s a slippery slope. You think you’re doing kind acts of love and care. You have recognize when your partner weaponize incompetence.
2025-08-05 01:59:06
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cait helle || baltimore hair :
Melanie Hamlett wrote an article for Harper’s Bazaar in 2019 called “Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden” and I talk about it all the time-it refers to men as emotional gold diggers, I highly recommend reading it
2025-08-05 14:30:24
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ThatCaribGirlDuh :
This explains why I get so irritated with men not knowing, or claiming to not know, basic things or human consideration. I always lose interest within 1-3 months because I start to feel like a mother and I hate that and refuse to do it.
2025-08-05 03:37:57
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