@claireauden: This is what the narcissist is hoping for when they come back and act like nothing happened after abusing you. #narcissistbehavior #narcissist #narcissisticrelationship #narcissisticabuse #traumabond
I’ve read books that warned me about narcissists and emotional abusers, but they always left me angry at them not wiser about myself. Ego Destruction by Drenn Solace was different. It didn’t offer comfort. It offered confrontation. It made me see how I became the perfect match for manipulation by abandoning my boundaries and silencing my truth. It hurt to read, and that’s why it worked.
2025-08-07 19:45:36
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Jess Rodwell :
Exactly what he did, every. single. time.
2025-08-05 08:50:07
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Muddy Cactus :
See in the past, I’d watch these videos, but I’d still be too giddy to see or talk to him again that ignored it. I can feel my frontal lobe developing because suddenly I’m not giddy I’m bored of it
2025-08-18 22:04:21
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user5641 :
I wasn't a narcissist until I started having relationships with females
2025-08-05 13:53:48
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Michellica ❌️ :
Oh yeah. My ex always bought me something the day after stomping on my heart.
2025-08-05 19:16:25
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T 🌟 :
Called my ex out on this and I was told we have a disconnect bc of it 😂😂
2025-08-05 14:09:06
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BEC :
That's exactly what he's done!
2025-08-05 09:03:28
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braylinurbanek :
He is spiraling bc i walked away and staying silent and doing all the things he said i couldn’t!! My nervous system feels normal again and i am LIVING✨
2025-08-05 12:47:27
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LesIsMore4 :
1000%! Thank you!
2025-08-06 05:37:58
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breeze :
Just dealt with this today
2025-08-06 11:26:35
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Angelica :
absolutely this 💯! and heaven forbid u bring anything up, then they become incredibly cruel & "punish" u to "put u in your place" 🥺
2025-08-05 07:39:35
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Joey :
Trauma bond
2025-08-05 14:12:34
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Bi.Ma.Ca :
Exactly, they even told you not to live in the past…what???…thanks to them I’m not able to stand a lack of accountability anymore from anybody for anything (even the smallest things), no way I can accept anymore. This doesn’t work anymore
2025-08-05 10:41:53
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SassLyssa :
My coworkers ✨
2025-08-05 17:00:59
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Judy :
until one day you no longer take it & just walk out.
2025-08-05 11:14:51
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C H E R I ❤️ :
And what happens when you get to a point where enough is enough and you lash out and call them out on all their lies? I’m at that point
2025-08-05 12:14:59
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꧁𝓒𝓱𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓮 🦋 𝓑𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓮 ꧂ :
My 15 y/o son has learned to do this by watching his father. How do I correct this behavior in my child? I don't know what to do!
2025-08-07 03:44:54
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mind.abyss :
Coverts are the worst because they don’t yell and seem more “patient” but still lie, cheat, manipulate, gaslight and still make you question your own reality for them to control you and extract what they want from you. It’s harder to spot and claim ab. use
2025-08-05 17:38:15
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Laurie :
Mirror them. They won’t like what they see…themselves. They don’t like themselves and feel shame
2025-08-06 06:07:26
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Bri :
I absolutely resonate with this I endured this for 12 humiliating years 😭
2025-08-05 21:01:39
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gojenie0 :
It worked for YEARS 😣
2025-08-05 19:12:47
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tiamaria :
yup
2025-08-06 16:18:08
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enthusiasticallyconfused :
Yeah this happened often to me. I thought I was going crazy.. did she forget what she did? does she think she did nothing wrong? If you question it, the answer is 'I don't like to dwell on things' or 'aren't you over it yet?' No further communication about the events that happened. And it's true, you're grateful they're not ignoring you anymore and hope the old person is back. It's all a facade.
2025-08-05 14:21:02
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imjustroxanne :
I just ended a 9 year relationship over this exact thing. Now that I’ve left him, I finally see what he was doing all that time. This was EXACTLY his behavior. People, PLEASE don’t waste your time thinking they will change! They won’t, they can’t! RUN!!
2025-08-05 15:44:43
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chan :
then all of a sudden it’s “can’t we just have a good day?” if you try to hold them accountable and don’t just fawn
2025-08-06 05:49:16
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