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teddyboscodots
Saxon 5998 :
Infidelity is the end of the marriage. PERIOD.
2025-08-07 03:06:53
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lovelifefamily123
Lovelife with Magdalene :
"This is not us" First, second,third honeymoon Relationship is a living thing that needs to be fanned. Put in the effort 👍👍
2025-08-11 07:16:52
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scorpio.queen711
Scorpio Queen Gen ❌🇨🇦 :
I agree with you on mostly everything, but when cheating, domestic violence, control of finances or hurting children are involved there is No fixing that marriage despite how much accountability that person takes! Some things are unforgivable! If none of these things have occurred then yes you need to try and work through things! But both people have to be putting in the effort not just one sided!
2025-08-07 10:11:38
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stellarpeaks
Shanel :
Beautifully worded and so so true! 💯🙏🏻
2025-08-29 02:18:04
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itsmebren_l
Brenda :
It’s a choice, it depends on how much you want to make it work. 💕🙏💕
2025-08-11 02:05:35
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lolabeck19
Lola lala :
I find this so confusing. Cheating throughout an entire marriage? Unfortunately, I grew up in a home where my father cheated on my mother for the duration of their marriage. She would believe whatever he told her and kept trying to “repair” the marriage, even while he continued his behavior. As children, we could see the lies, and it has affected us deeply into adulthood. That’s why I don’t understand why people preach about repairing a marriage after cheating. When one person is vulnerable to lies, it can create a cycle of false hope. I’m really trying to make sense of this as part of my own healing.
2025-09-03 11:20:37
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ericreyes492
Eric Reyes :
I agree. So many want to say not if cheating, abuse, etc. it is unforgivable. So you’d rather date another who has done one of those things to someone else and changed, but can’t accept your spouses and when they want to take accountability for their issues and change?
2025-08-07 13:56:59
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kimbessette4
kimbessette4 :
Praying for that next phase and that recovery can happen
2025-08-08 18:14:37
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sekhmet458
Sekhmet :
I say this all the time. You can't base your relationship on feelings, they change everytime.
2025-08-07 08:39:21
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heatherkane4
Heather Kane :
you wouldn’t do all that for another person if you didn’t have strong feelings for them. So no feelings don’t die, but the honeymoon stage ends. If you actually loved someone you would go through the ups and downs, the heartaches and challenges, because you know the feelings you both have for each other will always get you through what ever life throws at you. If you don’t have a strong feeling for something, you wouldn’t feel that motivation to work that hard for it. If you had a job that didn’t fulfill you, doesn’t appreciate you, or respect you, would go continue fighting for that position no matter what, even if it effected your happiness and your daily life, having more bad days then good, would you still continue to fight for it anyway, just because you made the choice to take that position 10 years ago? Or would you think, maybe I would be happier working somewhere else, and maybe this company would have an employee who really loved this position more than me? Forcing something even though it doesn’t work, will not work out like
2025-08-10 05:20:24
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jabonglicia
Jabong Felicia :
thank you for this timely for me.
2025-08-06 19:41:24
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angiebabie92281
AngieBabie92281 :
Infidelity cannot be repaired. No to the two A’s: adultry and abuse. These are the only 2 Biblical reasons to divorce. Period!
2025-08-07 21:53:04
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arenales160
Yesenia :
I understand this now ♥️
2025-08-07 19:18:05
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herheart3531
HerHeart3531 :
This is solid advice ❤️
2025-08-06 05:50:39
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phoenixw2019
Phoenix19 :
Can’t tell you how valuable all this info is. Too many people say “we fell out of love”. So lame. So lazy. Keep it coming. I’m saving all your posts.
2025-08-08 23:45:46
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jenniferltravis
Jenn Travis :
Marriage makes you humble if you really want to make it.
2025-08-14 18:16:09
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radamohammed315
Rada Mohammed :
just want to say everything you said is true but yes you go to have resilience and you got to understand and be willing to forgive and continue loving
2025-08-08 11:47:35
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hiltonleigh7
Josephine :
what about is he continues to hurt you with no remorse?
2025-08-07 08:24:35
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nate.jones151
Nate Jones :
Amen
2025-08-07 04:25:00
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cluckcluck84
Noelle :
My husband says he’s not in love with me and left .
2025-08-08 04:55:45
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mikitotefu222
Mikitotefu :
it'd be good to hear the woman pov since it's proven that men benefit from marriage and women benefit more from being single
2025-08-07 19:47:23
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irinnlee007
SGIrinn007 盈萱 :
Good marriage is really consistent constantly mutual efforts to make each other feel needed and loved.
2025-08-19 05:34:50
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kimlynstanyon
kimlyn stanyon :
Such awesome points!!!! So important to take marriage seriously!!!!! I know it is to death with us!!!!^^
2025-08-08 11:31:57
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kristelavilez1
Kristel ♥️ :
What to do when the other person is not putting the effort to make it work?
2025-08-11 16:22:54
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dylusionistic
Ðŷłäņ🏎️💨 :
Cheating part make me wanna stay single for life
2025-08-28 05:12:45
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