Em | Trauma & Abuse Educator
Region: US
Tuesday 05 August 2025 21:20:07 GMT
118424
13527
417
1171
Music
Download
Comments
Breezy :
I would take physical abuse over and over again over emotional abuse.
2025-08-06 13:14:55
631
sandrachesnut :
I’ve been in both amd emotional abuse is a lot worse
2025-08-06 05:23:07
67
Kaya 🐈⬛ :
If he had hit me, I would have left. And he knew it. Instead, my mind and body are permanently damaged from two decades of his words and actions.
2025-08-07 18:14:03
345
user263637374858 :
It’s like your brain refuses to allow you to believe the person you love is capable of harming you. It’s crazy what our minds can do!
2025-08-05 22:35:25
321
Christina | Solo Esthetician :
My brain wouldn’t even accept I was being abused bc I wasn’t being hit
2025-08-06 21:16:17
221
niin.vvvvv :
Physical abuse doesn’t hurt as much as psychological abuse 😭😭😭💔💔
2025-09-14 01:16:57
15
Craig Hix :
Emotional abuse can destroy you on the inside.People always associate abuse with a man abusing a woman physically.The guy is bigger and stronger etc.I have had both men and women do it to me.Workplaces, friends, family,online friends etc.Now My friend group is smaller but very supportive
2025-08-05 21:48:29
83
Amber 💕 :
“It feels like dying every single day” that killed me. That was my life for 10 years, I finally filed for divorce and can’t wait until it’s over.
2025-08-07 12:24:44
55
Diana :
Thank you for explaining it like this. I've often thought that I was crazy.
2025-08-09 16:48:25
6
hollycross822 :
Yes. And courts don't care about abuse unless it's physical.
2025-08-08 11:10:11
45
shandraontiktok :
Yup. Especially because he would literally tell me I was overreacting because all he did was threathened me or throw stuff that didn’t hit me directly
2025-08-07 23:39:48
6
Brianna Brown :
No one believed me when I told them he cheated the first time so every other time after I kept it to myself
2025-08-15 13:10:09
5
✨️Logan✨️ :
I literally live every single day wishing I didn’t have to prove I was abused.
2025-08-05 23:06:06
81
PebbleBo🎐🍰 :
Wow. I always felt horribly guilty for feeling this way. I have bouts of rage a year after; and sometimes I wish he just hit me instead of destroying my soul. 😩 But I know that’s an irrational thought.
2025-08-06 06:02:13
48
TheUnfilteredMomma ☮️ :
Bruises fade, words stick
2025-08-08 14:20:26
28
Lizzygirl77❌ :
Finally someone understands!!! ❤️
2025-08-07 16:19:11
6
Becca :
I think about this often and I thought the same thing. Physically hurting someone leaves evidence, where emotional abuse is harder to prove and easier to say “ we are being crazy”
2025-09-21 14:15:12
5
Becky :
My issue is that everyone validates it in my close circle of friends but his family doesn’t and it makes me feel like I’m exaggerating or it’s not really happening
2025-08-09 05:05:47
7
Autumn :
They wouldn’t care, sorry, I went through emotional abuse in my 9 year marriage and then got into a horrible physically abusive relationship, even strangled unconscious. No one cares still
2025-08-07 02:06:48
11
Yaya04 :
same. I always feltike if he physically abused me it would give me more validation to leave. I spent 35 yrs in a marriage with a narcissist. I went completely numb. I couldn't laugh or cry..no emotion at all. by the grace of God I finally got out last year!
2025-08-07 16:47:38
26
Shannon :
This! He won’t recognize the abuse, I feel like he could if he could see it.
2025-08-06 23:25:05
7
Chantelle :
A close friend of mine asked me last week when I was going to be able to forgive him. I looked at her with tears in my eyes. This video sums up all of those feelings
2025-08-05 21:59:38
10
✨ Amy Leigh ✨ :
I have said this. I want it so HE will see it and stop blowing me off. “You act like I’m this horrible person and you have no proof. You have nothing to say” ..because I clam up and can’t physically get works out of my mouth…
2025-08-07 01:50:15
5
meokie2552 :
You say that, but I promise you don’t mean it. If you’re being physically abused, you’re being emotionally abused as well. Physical abuse does not have to be every day. It can be random, spread out over periods of time. Some abusers are severe and some are the sort that purposely try not to leave bruises, so you still don’t have any proof and they always seem to have a valid explanation for why it happened. The bottom line is all types of abuse suck. Everyone’s experience has some similarities but is also unique.
2025-08-09 07:41:51
9
Karlie Richardson :
Immediate follow. This is where i belong.
2025-08-13 00:32:00
3
To see more videos from user @healingwithemilyg, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
