Rob Dial | The Mindset Mentor
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beezer62583 :
Yes but it’s exhausting always being understanding 🥺
2025-08-06 02:54:20
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Mkost :
Emotional intelligence is about NOT empathizing with toxic people. Trauma is not an excuse for bad behavior.
2025-08-06 17:25:19
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Rosey 🦉 :
:omg I needed to hear this cause I'm like why can't I stay mad
2025-08-18 03:34:20
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Mayo-mayo :
Some people here are missing the point. I guess this message was for intelligent people, clearly.
2025-08-06 07:41:31
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bethy :
but if i can deal with my trauma and still be a good person why can’t they? 😭
2025-08-07 04:24:29
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jessi_chi22 :
I don't agree with you on this. Let's stop making excuses for these type of people already. Not everyone had an awesome childhood, yet they didn't turn out ba.d or go about hurting people. I would like to say it's a choice.
2025-08-06 08:24:27
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The princess 💞 :
I don't like them and I don't hate them, I stay away simple.
2025-08-06 07:46:32
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JIDE :
Some people are empaths despite having a difficult childhood wound they still choose to care and never hate anyone, while some are psychopaths, some become narcissistic. They find pleasure in hurting others , they are broken , wounded , traumatized and they project their fear onto others. Emotional intelligence is developed through self discovery, self awareness,study of other people's behaviour , you have your own self discipline and previous experiences, this will prepare your mind to understand why others behave in a certain way
2025-08-15 05:18:31
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Muchakova I don't DM first :
Exactly. I always see a wounded child. But also I don't tolerate abusive behavior towards me. :)
2025-08-18 19:10:40
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leedavidson80 :
This great advice and absolutely 💯, but we can’t get to our 30’s or even 40’s and use being a wounded child as an excuse for our behaviour. We have to understand our triggers earlier and do the necessary work. It’s boring seeing someone make the same mistakes and use the same excuses as a full grown adult..
2025-08-07 07:31:39
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Librería Los Colores🇬🇹 :
But that doesn't mean you have to stay there to get hurt by their behavior.
2025-08-06 00:14:34
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Menace😌 :
Can’t agree
2025-08-06 15:21:48
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SingleDad🇨🇦 :
100% and it's so hard.... waited years for that to change
2025-08-06 02:19:03
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ndumisowam :
Exactly...Hurting people want to hurt others!!!
2025-08-06 06:09:00
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Debz🇿🇦 :
Emotional intelligence also means boundaries (from such people)..
2025-08-12 10:02:15
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🚨CatchACheaterGuide🚨 :
I honestly think everyone should study psychology and learn through basics as a minimum. 🙏
2025-08-07 14:34:06
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Mookie2025 :
Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges, and defuse conflict. It encompasses the capacity to perceive, understand, and manage emotions in oneself and others.
2025-08-08 05:08:07
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theb0lt3r :
you cannot hate someone you really don't know.
2025-08-07 09:40:03
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IamDrGrant :
When you’re emotionally intelligent, you see beyond the pain—hurt people hurt people, but their wounds aren’t your burden to carry. Compassion doesn’t mean carrying their pain; it means knowing when to protect your own heart.
2025-08-06 12:06:38
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Jessica Rabbit 🧿🏹⚖️ :
If EQ is high and empathy is high, we end up forever analyzing, reflecting and having compassion.
2025-08-06 01:56:45
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Bella :
But it makes me too kind and people take advantage
2025-08-06 17:40:02
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user5092879280202 :
I understand it but I will no longer be want to be in their life
2025-08-05 23:14:40
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Primaloona :
I agree... 100%
2025-08-06 06:24:52
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Esther :
Very true! Thank you for sharing!
2025-08-06 06:10:28
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AndileC. :
So we must tolerate everything from people? Am not a therapist.
2025-08-06 09:09:05
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