@drewwdaniels: I have always tried to outsource safety to everything and anyone other than myself. #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #relationshipproblems #relationshipadvice #attachmentstyles
As a healing fearful avoidant myself, this is so accurate!
2025-08-06 03:31:36
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Moira Jo :
I’m so glad I am healed lol. My mind doesn’t operate like that anymore. It took me 7 years to think differently.
2025-08-07 15:31:19
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Aubs&Al :
this sounds like every man i’ve dated lately
2025-08-06 13:02:26
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MamaB :
As an anxious moved to healed(betrayed twice while healing😬) don’t we all need to source safty within ourselves. Imo when others are able to give that it’s a gift
2025-08-06 09:31:59
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0042443_411609 :
Hmm… realizing I may not be secure but actually just disorganized. Knowing people can’t be perfect and decode you, I still struggle with identifying where the line is before my continuing to communicate and keep a line open just warps into self-abandonment.
2025-08-06 07:32:17
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ashleylennon123 :
idk if im FA or Anxious. I definitely lean more anxious
2025-08-06 16:53:28
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Miss Queerina 🌈 🇳🇱 :
insightful
2025-08-06 02:34:41
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lorens.lens :
I have always been able to see how both sides could be a lot as a disorganized person. I’ve been frustrated by both attachment styles
2025-08-06 04:25:20
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4theBetter :
Omg .. avoidants sourcing safety in their grandiosity… the overcoming, resiliency. Thank you for this insight.
2025-08-07 04:40:41
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Sharon Kelvin 🥑 :
That’s not right. Sourcing your safety in someone’s validation. Validation is good but don’t cost it at the expense of someone else opinion of you. At least I’ve learnt that much.
2025-08-06 18:03:43
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LittleMiss_Crashout💀 :
I’m a fearful avoidant and I can date everyone except anxious people. I distrust kind acts most of all 😂 be an jerk me and I know where we stand
2025-09-23 23:21:43
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Justice.5.lover :
Now do a secure vs FA
2025-08-07 01:43:28
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MsStryker :
I need to learn how to do that!!
2025-08-10 04:53:42
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Jakeem Dante Powell :
Damm. This resonated with me
2025-08-06 20:01:18
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beepbeep :
my heart breaks for fearful avoidants honestly. I can't imagine not being able to seek comfort from others (i'm anxious attached) 💔 I never realized how my anxiety was putting so much pressure on my partner until I started pulling away-not in a bad way, just giving him space, asking less questions, trying to source my reassurance from other places and putting time limits on tough conversations(or pausing when I can tell he's getting overwhelmed) - just a couple weeks of being mindful on my side (and PATIENT) and we're doing so much better already 🥹🩷
2025-08-08 15:55:00
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nono :
😂😂😂
2025-08-15 14:21:14
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Steffi Young Wellbeing :
❤
2025-09-19 21:38:05
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Jenny :
❤️
2025-08-28 01:13:47
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Steffi Young Wellbeing :
😂
2025-09-19 21:38:04
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Jenny1234567 :
😁😁😁
2025-08-09 18:05:01
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Kristy :
❤
2025-08-29 17:47:37
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lorens.lens :
No dead ass!!!!
2025-08-06 04:24:35
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