@drewwdaniels: I have always tried to outsource safety to everything and anyone other than myself. #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #relationshipproblems #relationshipadvice #attachmentstyles

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wa.nderluster
wa.nderluster :
As a healing fearful avoidant myself, this is so accurate!
2025-08-06 03:31:36
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moira.jo
Moira Jo :
I’m so glad I am healed lol. My mind doesn’t operate like that anymore. It took me 7 years to think differently.
2025-08-07 15:31:19
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aubs_and_al
Aubs&Al :
this sounds like every man i’ve dated lately
2025-08-06 13:02:26
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foundmywings20
MamaB :
As an anxious moved to healed(betrayed twice while healing😬) don’t we all need to source safty within ourselves. Imo when others are able to give that it’s a gift
2025-08-06 09:31:59
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0042443_411609
0042443_411609 :
Hmm… realizing I may not be secure but actually just disorganized. Knowing people can’t be perfect and decode you, I still struggle with identifying where the line is before my continuing to communicate and keep a line open just warps into self-abandonment.
2025-08-06 07:32:17
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ashleylennon123
ashleylennon123 :
idk if im FA or Anxious. I definitely lean more anxious
2025-08-06 16:53:28
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missqueerina
Miss Queerina 🌈 🇳🇱 :
insightful
2025-08-06 02:34:41
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lorens.lens
lorens.lens :
I have always been able to see how both sides could be a lot as a disorganized person. I’ve been frustrated by both attachment styles
2025-08-06 04:25:20
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userbm0eka9ctq
4theBetter :
Omg .. avoidants sourcing safety in their grandiosity… the overcoming, resiliency. Thank you for this insight.
2025-08-07 04:40:41
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_sharo.n_
Sharon Kelvin 🥑 :
That’s not right. Sourcing your safety in someone’s validation. Validation is good but don’t cost it at the expense of someone else opinion of you. At least I’ve learnt that much.
2025-08-06 18:03:43
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roastedrabbit24
LittleMiss_Crashout💀 :
I’m a fearful avoidant and I can date everyone except anxious people. I distrust kind acts most of all 😂 be an jerk me and I know where we stand
2025-09-23 23:21:43
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better.together.143
Justice.5.lover :
Now do a secure vs FA
2025-08-07 01:43:28
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ms.strikezone20
MsStryker :
I need to learn how to do that!!
2025-08-10 04:53:42
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jakeemdantepowell
Jakeem Dante Powell :
Damm. This resonated with me
2025-08-06 20:01:18
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sylveon_enthusiast
beepbeep :
my heart breaks for fearful avoidants honestly. I can't imagine not being able to seek comfort from others (i'm anxious attached) 💔 I never realized how my anxiety was putting so much pressure on my partner until I started pulling away-not in a bad way, just giving him space, asking less questions, trying to source my reassurance from other places and putting time limits on tough conversations(or pausing when I can tell he's getting overwhelmed) - just a couple weeks of being mindful on my side (and PATIENT) and we're doing so much better already 🥹🩷
2025-08-08 15:55:00
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fadavis1
nono :
😂😂😂
2025-08-15 14:21:14
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steffiyoung_wellbeing
Steffi Young Wellbeing :
2025-09-19 21:38:05
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jrec2020
Jenny :
❤️
2025-08-28 01:13:47
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steffiyoung_wellbeing
Steffi Young Wellbeing :
😂
2025-09-19 21:38:04
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ty1234567577
Jenny1234567 :
😁😁😁
2025-08-09 18:05:01
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magical1979
Kristy :
2025-08-29 17:47:37
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lorens.lens
lorens.lens :
No dead ass!!!!
2025-08-06 04:24:35
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